I had a very long post written and then my phone died before i could post which says it all really
But the short version is I declined a girls trip because my boyfriend of 7 months had a weekend away planned, for reasons out of his control we had to postpone our weekend
Was I wrong to then go in the girls trip, ( that he assured me he was fine with me going, no problem at all and there would be no resentment) when I came home told me he felt I’d “made the wrong choice” and I should have chosen to spend the weekend with him and that he feels like he comes second.
He doesn’t but I also don’t want to put friends and family aside because I’m now in a relationship
its the made the wrong choice comment it triggers me and I don’t know why I felt like I was being gaslit buts not gaslighting or is it… I don’t know everything else is hunky dory i just can’t seem to get past this
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A comment my boyfriend made has really triggered me and I don’t know why
Luciferthethird · 27/03/2024 00:49
Mmhmmn · 27/03/2024 00:59
Dump this bellend. He’s fucking with you. It will get worse.
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