Acid reflux is common with hypothyroidism (caused by low stomach acid) but if yours was a short spell, maybe not connected.
Gluten intolerance and celiac (which I can see you've been tested for and don't have) has a strong connection to Hashimoto's. It's to do with gluten proteins triggering the immune system. Have your IBS / gut issues been worsening in a way that would fit in with the way your TSH has been rising over the last decade?
Your B12 is on the low side. According to an extract from the book, "Could it be B12?" by Sally M. Pacholok, "We believe that the 'normal' serum B12 threshold needs to be raised from 200 pg/ml to at least 450 pg/ml because deficiencies begin to appear in the cerebrospinal fluid below 550". For brain and nervous system health and prevention of disease in older adults, serum B12 levels should be maintained near or above 1000 pg/ml."
You can check for any signs of B12 deficiency at https://www.b12info.com/signs-and-symptoms/. If your B12 levels are low and your TSH has been stable for the last few years, it's possible that it's also the B12, not just the hypothyroidism, that's causing some of your symptoms.
Your ferritin is roughly same as mine currently. I'm receiving 6-monthly iron infusions to address my previously very low levels (my ferritin was 4 at its worst) BUT (this is relevant to you) - they are trying to get my ferritin to 50, as a foundation, and told me it should really be above 70, and ideally 100, for it to be optimum and for me to be feeling much better.
All in all, from what you've said, I just think you're teetering on a precipice. All of your symptoms could be down to something else, and that's how subclinical hypothyroidism is left to worsen in the vast majority of cases. GPs and our own selves just sit and wait until our thyroid goes completely kaput, and then we try to shut the stable door.
My best advice is to: get more tests done and address any vitamin or mineral deficiencies (full TFT, full blood count, B12, folate, serum C reactive protein, TPO / TPa antibodies, vit D). Try going gluten free for 3 months and see if your feel different. Reapproach your doctor and explain that you want your TSH levels to be in a better place, seeing as you're TTC (apologies if you've already had that convo and got nowhere - keep pushing).
Supplements I really like and that have made a difference to me are myo-inositol, chelated magnesium, a high dose vitamin C supplement that also has probiotics and selenium in it, Saccharomyces boulardii, and a high dose D3 + K2 spray.
Also rest, eat well, and be kind to yourself. Accept that your body is not all that well right now and that your mental health symptoms, along with your fatigue, are big indicators of that - it needs compassion from you because it's trying really hard to keep up. Once you conceive it's going to need more help than before.
Hugely sorry for the essay. I hope at least a bit of it is helpful! ❤️