I never used a CM and have no experience so thought I'd ask for advice. My best friend is about to start working with one and she said her CM is charging her for 6 weeks holiday pa (she doesn't 'collaborate' with other CMs eg to recommend another one for when she's away), plus all bank holidays, and that on days when her 3yo (who receives 30 funded hrs) will be with her CM, she will be applying the funded hours to cover her time when the little girl is in preschool because "otherwise she'd be worse off". My friend will also have to provide food for her little girl. She's a single mum and has no idea how to arrange cover for all this time off as well as pay her CM for it, and she's not sure she should be paying in funded hours for CM's downtime (she thought she'd have to pay for pick up/drop off and food on top of funded hours, but now she's not sure if she's misunderstood the government funding). I looked at this and it seems to me the CM is self employed yet she is expecting my friend to pay for absolutely everything (apart from CM's sickness) whether she's working or not. I also don't see how she can use funded hours to cover time when she isn't actually looking after my friend's daughter?
Can anyone with a CM shed some light please as I'm trying to help her out? Is this common or should she look for a different CM? xx