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2 weeks to go to my big solo adventure and starting to lose my nerve!

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Twodogsonthecouch · 21/03/2024 07:28

My brother died very suddenly in his early 40’s 12 years ago. Before he died he had done a number of long solo walking holidays including the Camino from St Jean Pied de Pont to Santiago, so 500 miles.
Ever since it has been my dream to do the same route.
Now I’m 58. My youngest child is in University. I am a partner in work and have very supportive colleagues who will work up while I’m away so on a whim a few weeks ago I decided to go for it. I have booked a single ticket to fly to Biarritz after Easter and have told work I will be gone for 8 weeks. Im going by myself and planning to carry a backpack and wing it because I don’t want to commit to a particular distance each day. I have various friends and family who are coming to join me wherever I am at different times so it should be fantastic and I am very excited.
I’m also getting a bit terrified though. Mainly about the walking. I’m reasonably fit and have done a few 16-18 km hill walks in the past few weeks to prepare but I’m overweight and have menopausal aches and pains and scared I will not be able for it. I have allowed myself an extra 2 weeks to the usual but that still means an average of 15km daily for 8 weeks. I’m telling myself that I will get fitter as I walk.
Am I mad? Reassurance needed 🤯

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Twodogsonthecouch · 04/05/2024 18:22

Thanks so much for the interest in this journey. It has been a great support to me.
I am doing well. I am now about 30km after León. There are a couple of big climbs coming up that I’m a bit nervous about because it has been flat for so long. I have to remind myself that if I made it over the Pyrenees I can do these 😂. As of today I have 273.5 km left and 493.5km done 😮. I’m still staying in Albergues and have got very used to them. My feet are overall good other than a few tender spots. It’s hard to imagine it will all be done and I’ll be back home in under 3 weeks now.
It is a difficult experience to describe and I’m certain it’s not for everyone but I have found it amazing and still can’t believe that I have made it this far

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Peridot1 · 04/05/2024 23:16

You are doing so amazingly well! You have definitely inspired me. One day!

InlikealionOutlikeahare · 06/05/2024 19:19

You are doing amazingly! Am so very impressed!

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Instantcustard · 06/05/2024 20:05

I really appreciate the updates. We're all behind you!

ReineMarieGamache · 06/05/2024 20:58

You can do those climbs. We're all with you in spirit. Just imagine us all there rooting for you!

Twodogsonthecouch · 07/05/2024 17:03

First one nearly done. Just the second half of the descent left. Although ironically it is the descent that I hate 😃

2 weeks to go to my big solo adventure and starting to lose my nerve!
2 weeks to go to my big solo adventure and starting to lose my nerve!
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Twodogsonthecouch · 07/05/2024 17:04

Descent

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LunaNorth · 07/05/2024 18:01

Stunning photos! You’re doing so well. Amazingly, in fact.

Pantah630 · 07/05/2024 18:38

What a fantastic experience, thank you so much for sharing it with us. Can I ask if there are many walking with dogs? I love long distance day walk with our Border Collie, she walks three times the distance obviously and loves it too. I wonder if something like this would be doable with her, and her niece once she's old enough. Walking with you vicariously OP. 💐

Suffolker · 07/05/2024 19:00

Really pleased to find your thread and to see how well you’re doing. I’d love to think I could manage something like that one day, but we’ve only just completed a local ‘long’ distance footpath, of approx 45 miles, and it took us 5 days spread over 12 months. So a little less ambitious 😂

DancefloorAcrobatics · 07/05/2024 20:28

I love following your progress. You are a real inspiration for me!
A few years ago I promised myself to do the Alpine Crossing (Obersdorf - Meran or Tegernsee - Sterzig) ... Reading your progress makes me think its gonna happen nx year or 2026 ... (I am a bit time poor for solo adventures)

Keep going!

BishyBarnyBee · 08/05/2024 08:07

Great pictures, @Twodogsonthecouch. I think the down is often the worst bit for ageing knees!

I've been following a couple of camino facebook groups and there has been a big debate following a poster who was bitterly disappointed by her camino experience last week. She'd spent a lot of money flying from the USA for a week doing the final 100k. It was wet, crowded and unfriendly, and she was particularly upset that no-one was responding to her Buen Camino after the first day. Her view was that YouTube and the movie have romanticised the Camino, and she wished someone had "posted the cold hard facts" before she "threw a crap ton of money down the toilet".

My heart went out to her as she had clearly had a terrible week, plodding through deep mud in a throng of unfriendly strangers. It's such a long way to come for a week, and I think she was expecting a deeply spiritual experience, which is a lot to ask from a week's trekking in an often wet West European region.

A few Camino volunteers chipped in, saying they have never seen the Camino so busy. It's been reassuring to read your reports and see that you are quite clearly having the Camino you expected - tough but do-able, and it's obviously challenging you but you are getting a lot from it. I'd think the crowded final stretches will be a lot easier to cope with when they are just another element of the challenge of the Way, and not the whole experience. Also, I wondered if it was particularly bad last week because people may have planned their week around the May Day holiday?

Anyway, it's been truly lovely and very inspiring to follow your adventure, looking forward to hearing how the final big climbs go. Buen Camino!

BishyBarnyBee · 08/05/2024 10:59

Pantah630 · 07/05/2024 18:38

What a fantastic experience, thank you so much for sharing it with us. Can I ask if there are many walking with dogs? I love long distance day walk with our Border Collie, she walks three times the distance obviously and loves it too. I wonder if something like this would be doable with her, and her niece once she's old enough. Walking with you vicariously OP. 💐

I'd imagine the snag would be accommodation - I can't see the albergues allowing dogs, and I'd think you'd struggle to book a string of dog friendly hotels. I can see the appeal for you though, it's a lovely idea.

gindreams · 08/05/2024 16:47

@Twodogsonthecouch are you planning to go on to Finnisterre ? My friend stayed in the lighthouse there and the sunset is amazing '

redmapleleaves1 · 08/05/2024 17:46

Am loving reading your adventure, thank you for posting. I've long hoped to do the Camino, your posts are reminding me of this dream, and that it is doable, with planning.

Buon Camino, thank you!

mitogoshi · 08/05/2024 17:48

Loving your reports. I had a tentative plan to walk it in 2020/21 but obviously didn't happen. Very inspirational to get walking again

Twodogsonthecouch · 08/05/2024 20:40

@Pantah630 I saw one dog in Roncesvalles, so at the very beginning, just over the Pyrenees. He was an emotional support dog for an American veteran. No idea how he got on afterwards.
I think it would be a nightmare to be honest and I love my dog! Accommodation would be very challenging. It’s very hot here again now. Some of the terrain is very uneven and I would say dangerous with a dog on a lead
@BishyBarnyBee I read that post. I completely agree that it’s much easier to get what you want from it if you have a longer experience to get more context. It was obviously her experience but based on one week in time
@gindreams I’m definitely not walking to finnesterre. Santiago was always my finish and I have no interest in extending that. If I can do that I will be more than happy

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gindreams · 08/05/2024 21:23

@Twodogsonthecouch I got the bus I was completely done in Santiago but had a few days to spare so I went there 😊

Twodogsonthecouch · 08/05/2024 21:26

@gindreams ok, that’s different 😂😂. May well do that! Haven’t booked my return flight yet so will have to see.

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Pantah630 · 09/05/2024 11:16

@BishyBarnyBee @Twodogsonthecouch
Thank you both yes accommodation probably not realistic with dogs and I don't fancy humping a tent around as well so will stick with trying to plan something in this country first. The heat wouldn't be an issue as someone who detests it hot is only be walking in the cooler months.

Really enjoying your updates and pleased you're having a fantastic walk twodogsonthecouch

gindreams · 10/05/2024 07:14

@Twodogsonthecouch yes my legs said no way ! It looks like you are having a fantastic time and the adventure of a lifetime ! Savour every moment I only mentioned finnisterre as I was very jealous of my camino friend who stayed there, I stayed in a cheaper hostel but it was still very nice 😊

Twodogsonthecouch · 11/05/2024 16:24

Last big climb to O’Cebreiro done. It was a beautiful day and I actually really really enjoyed the climb. The views are stunning. 149.5 km left. I have my hotel booked in Santiago and my flight home 4 days later, only booked that today!
So walking into Santiago on the 20th May and flying home on the 24th. 6.5 weeks of walking so quite slow but a lovely pace for me

2 weeks to go to my big solo adventure and starting to lose my nerve!
2 weeks to go to my big solo adventure and starting to lose my nerve!
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BishyBarnyBee · 11/05/2024 17:21

That looks amazing - can't believe you're coming to the end stages. It's been so good to follow your journey and see you overcome those initial anxieties. You have inspired a lot of mumsnetters!

madroid · 11/05/2024 19:31

@Twodogsonthecouch Thank you, thank you Twodogs! I've been dreaming about doing paths in the UK for a long time and you've inspired me to get serious!

Can I ask, as a solo traveller have you felt safe?

Twodogsonthecouch · 11/05/2024 20:13

@madroid I have felt completely safe at all times. Everyone has been very friendly. There were times when the trail was very quiet but even then it felt completely safe. I never went out before dawn as some people do but that’s because I’m lazy, not because I wouldn’t go out in the dark! 😂

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