Gifts for children - bereavement

[HalcyonSky]

I am going to a family funeral at the end of this week and would like to take a little gift for three children who have lost a beloved grandparent who they were very close to. The youngest one is the same age as my own child (who will not be attending), so I have a fairly good idea as to what will appeal to children that age and be appropriate in the circumstances. The older ones are older primary (boy) and young secondary (girl), and I'm afraid I'm not clued up as to what might be appreciated by these age groups. Any ideas would be very welcome.

Is a gift appropriate in this situation though? Doesn't seem right to me.

How close are you to the children and the grandparent?

If there's a close relationship, maybe look at clothing belonging to the grandparent and have it made into a memory bear / cushion / soft toy for them. That'll take a little time and planning but can often be done in a week or so.

Very close but not immediate family.

A card in age appropriate language telling them about the memories you have of their grandparent. It’s probably what you’ve given the surviving adults and I’m sure it will be appreciated.