I get a small amount of UC.
DH was cremated 2 weeks ago. He was early 50’s.
The Dr has signed me off and just put bereavement on the last sick note. When I uploaded it the info it was accepted, but now I’ve had a message to say I need to fill in a form for a work capability assessment.
How heartless is that?
I will say that I was off a little before his death due to stress and anxiety as DH was suffering a long drawn out ending and it was all quite distressing and traumatic.
When my latest fit note ends I will have been off for 6 weeks in total.
I don’t feel ready to go back but feel UC is forcing me back.
I’ve just read a thread where people have said they were off 4 or 6 months following a death. I will have had 3 weeks after death and they are assessing me to see if I’m work worthy.I feel more distressed now after the message on my journal than I did before I got the notification.
I don’t know why I’m posting, I just feel all muddled and panicky and no clue where to go from here really. Dealing with his death is hard, being judged for needing time off for his death is distressing. Does anyone who has filled one of these capability questionnaires have any advice on what to put please?
TIA.