Thank you everyone for taking time to talk to me, so we have been doing the following
Contacted the citizens bureau to know if we are eligible for benefits, they said if we have savings we cannot apply for UC however once we are bankrupt we can, so at the moment it is a far option
We both are applying for jobs anything which suits our background
We both have reached out to our network and still doing it, however nothing materialized yet with contacts
My in laws have kindly accepted to help us with the groceries dry ones ( since this needs to be sent from a different country). This will substantially reduce our spending on groceries a lot for a while
This morning fortunately my husband's company has given him.one more week before serving.the 1 month notice period to find and sort out any internal roles in his company, although no roles yet came up for him, this will give us some breathing time to sort out outside job
We have reached out to our energy providers and applied for mortgage holidays as well
We will for sure take up a income protection insurance for our future jobs
All these are happening still I have a feeling which is so similar to bereavement and unable to relax even a single minute. We are worried for the children, they will not suffer for basics however as a parent if you know you are struggling to provide them, it literally puts us off. Also the house, I cannot explain how much love we have put in this house ( we have self built the house), every detail and hard work. Although no one will kick us out of this place suddenly, the feeling that what if we cannot afford the mortgage scares us and what scares us more is every single job opening has at least 50 applicants.
I am keeping my fingers crossed for everything. Hope this brutal torture ends quickly