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I just want to catch a chill and be in bed for a few days - is that odd ?

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rainbowsandclouds18 · 11/03/2024 15:22

the kind where you have goose bumps even though you have a temperature and feel really warm yet your body is still shivering.

I can then hide away in bed for a few days with a hot water bottle and recoup from general life and all the pressures on me.

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Moier · 11/03/2024 17:27

I'll swap places..I've got it now.. along with sore throat.. chest infection .. hacking cough and snotty nose.. . It's exhausting and painful.
Be careful what you wish for.
Just go to bed early and pretend.

Mementomorissons · 11/03/2024 17:30

I felt like this about the COVID lockdowns. I really believed we'd had a nice three week break from everything then it'd all be back to normal but with us all refreshed 😂

Shallana · 11/03/2024 17:30

I know what you mean OP! I came down with norovirus in November last year. The night/early hours of the morning were awful, but the next day the vomiting had subsided and I was just wiped out and shaky. I set myself up on the sofa with my duvet and oodie and watched christmas films/napped.

DH did all the chores and dog walking, changed the bed and kept me supplied with lucozade and snacks once my appetite returned. It was quite lovely.

PrayForMyBum · 11/03/2024 17:51

Yes! I’ve been daydreaming about this for months. My entire family have been ill at various points over the last year with some kind of bug or virus but I never seem to pick them up.

I do appreciate how lucky that makes me, but every now and again I think it would it would be nice if someone tucked me into bed and forced me to watch MAFS all day.

Last time I was ill was with covid in July 2021. Not even a sniffle since then.

whoputallofthatthere · 11/03/2024 18:18

No, I don't think this is odd. I feel like this occasionally when I'm very stressed/feeling run down by everything. I don't want to be literally ill, but just want an excuse to hide in bed for a few days.

HomeIsHardToFind · 11/03/2024 18:22

Yes, all the time! I really relate to the poster that fantasises about breaking a 'none important' bone so she has an excuse to just stop.
So many people rely on me for everything that I can't just switch off-ever.....even the flipping cat is meowing at me right now for something.

MrsDilligaf · 11/03/2024 18:31

I do! I had a water infection last year, ended up with some nasty antibiotics - aside from the obvious irritation, spending a couple of days in bed was bliss.

Isabelle70 · 11/03/2024 18:42

I sometimes think a day or so it bed would be lovely to have a rest. I am never sickly and always the one to be at work where all around me have some cough, cold, headache, sinus pain etc and get to stay home!

Cornflakes44 · 11/03/2024 19:11

rainbowsandclouds18 · 11/03/2024 16:07

Is having a day off sick due to mental health acceptable ? when nothing is physically wrong but you need a day to re-set before you hit burn out or a breakdown and are then potentially off for weeks/months

@magicstar1 I like your style

Yes. I probably wouldn't say that's why but I'd catch a shorted lived stomach bug and take to your bed. You sound knackered and sometimes you just need to stop and recuperate, if you have a partner could you get them to take more of the mental load as it sounds like that's what is overwhelming you.

bevelino · 11/03/2024 19:16

When I had to isolate for 10 days during Covid lockdown, it was heaven lying in bed all day and felt like a proper holiday from the trials of life.

Sugarfish · 11/03/2024 19:17

You need a holiday! Preferably somewhere kid free where you can relax.

I do get it though, last year work got so busy and we were all so burnt out I dreamt of getting covid. Just a mild form where I could lie in bed eating and watching tv for a few days.

BaaaBaaaBaaa · 11/03/2024 19:46

I totally get this. I have a 3 year old though so no resting even when I am ill!
A couple of years ago I was very unwell and went to the Dr, they suspected pneumonia and I was told to go straight to a&e. Despite feeling absolutely horrendous those few hours in a&e were great, I was really hoping I was going to be admitted so I could get some rest 😂 now that is mad..

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