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Today has been a bad day because ...

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Westernish · 09/03/2024 16:02

Please join in so we can commiserate together!

This morning, roofers started work on (you'll never guess) my roof. The existing roof battens were found to be in much worse condition than expected once the tiles were taken off. Great.

One of the roofers slipped (he didn't fall or injure himself) and dropped the tile he was carrying. The tile crashed through the newly decorated (as in 6 weeks ago) ceiling of my youngest ds's bedroom. Large parts of the ceiling, along with felt, moss, insulation material and god knows what else fell onto the bed. Ds thankfully is away at uni and not in his bed (well, he probably actually was in his bed, but not this one).

I needed to go out so opened the back door, as instructed, to tell the roofers I was going out of the front door. I didn't realise the side gate was open, smallest dog shot out and ran into the front driveway. Main roofer guy shouts, draws his leg right back ready to kick her (we're talking miniature sausage here so not a big fearsome dog), fortunately sees me so doesn't make contact, dog is scared by the shouting etc and falls down a very small slope. I think he would have killed her if he'd made contact.

Dog seems fine but I'm upset and can't help but cry. Roofer apologises (but only because I saw him) and rather than telling him to fuck right off, I have to accept the apology because I've paid a deposit and I don't want them to disappear with my money and my roof.

I have a headache by this time but have to go to do a shift where I volunteer. There's a new volunteer there and he approaches me to ask if I'm xxxx's mum? I say I am, we start having a lovely conversation - and I suddenly realise this is the lad who hurled racist abuse at my Dd at a nightclub. Granted, it was about 10 years ago but you know ... So now I have to fraternise with the enemy as it were.

I have a worse headache by now, but get through my shift. Decide to nip to M & S to use the toilet before I go home (I have 4 dc, I'm old, untrustworthy bladder - you know how it is). I never carry a handbag so had my phone, keys, glasses etc distributed around my person. As I stand up my car keys fall out of one of my pockets straight into the toilet. I stand and look at them, fighting off the almost overwhelming urge to cry. Have no option but to fish them out.

Get home, roofers still here (which is good), head is still pounding (which is bad), more petty shit goes wrong (which is par for the course today) - and here I am!

Ps headache is now gone thanks to industrial quantities of drugs.

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Westernish · 09/03/2024 16:02

Yikes, that's long. Sorry.

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SageRosemary · 09/03/2024 16:04

(((hugs!)))

Muchtoomuchtodo · 09/03/2024 16:05

Bless you.

Do you have wine for later?!

I thought getting overwhelmed by the choice of paints in B&Q was bad enough!!

Westernish · 09/03/2024 16:05

Thank you!

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Westernish · 09/03/2024 16:06

Muchtoomuchtodo · 09/03/2024 16:05

Bless you.

Do you have wine for later?!

I thought getting overwhelmed by the choice of paints in B&Q was bad enough!!

I have gin. And choosing paint colours is completely overwhelming!

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Butteredtoast55 · 09/03/2024 16:07

What a bloody awful catalogue of crap but thank goodness your DS wasn't in that bed, and that your little doggo is OK. Hopefully roofer guy will realise you're a tiger mother to your dog and will behave better in future.
Our roof is coming off in a month or two and we are almost at the end of other house improvements that should have taken no more than 10 days but we are now into week 7 of irritating incompetence so I feel your pain.

pinktransit · 09/03/2024 16:08

That sounds hellish. But it could have been worse - could have been your phone in the loo instead of keys.. Not that I've ever done that 😱 I hope you have wine for now, and a better day tomorrow.

Westernish · 09/03/2024 16:11

Butteredtoast55 · 09/03/2024 16:07

What a bloody awful catalogue of crap but thank goodness your DS wasn't in that bed, and that your little doggo is OK. Hopefully roofer guy will realise you're a tiger mother to your dog and will behave better in future.
Our roof is coming off in a month or two and we are almost at the end of other house improvements that should have taken no more than 10 days but we are now into week 7 of irritating incompetence so I feel your pain.

I wish you a speedy and complete resolution to all your improvements. It's a nightmare isn't it? I moved to this house last summer, and so many things have gone wrong. The builders had just finished all the internal work when I came home one day to find that, not only was rain falling outside, it was also falling inside through my newly decorated ceilings.

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Westernish · 09/03/2024 16:13

pinktransit · 09/03/2024 16:08

That sounds hellish. But it could have been worse - could have been your phone in the loo instead of keys.. Not that I've ever done that 😱 I hope you have wine for now, and a better day tomorrow.

I know! I did actually debate leaving the keys in the toilet, walking home, getting the spares and walking back to get the car! But by then my headache was worse and I decided I had to be a responsible grown up and get them out 🤢

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Careerdecisions · 09/03/2024 16:15

I was half expecting you to say that it was an automatic flush on the toilet and your keys were flushed away. Thank goodness they weren’t, it sounds as though your day has been testing enough, hoping things can only improve from here on.

Westernish · 09/03/2024 16:17

Careerdecisions · 09/03/2024 16:15

I was half expecting you to say that it was an automatic flush on the toilet and your keys were flushed away. Thank goodness they weren’t, it sounds as though your day has been testing enough, hoping things can only improve from here on.

That really would have been the limit but the loos in our M & S look to me to date from approximately 1980 so no mod cons here!

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ALongHardWinter · 09/03/2024 17:50

Omg OP that sounds like the day from hell! And here's me moaning because I had to wait 20 minutes for the bus (app actually said it was due in 6 minutes) and then the traffic was a bloody nightmare. What should have been a 20 minute journey took 45 minutes. But compared to your day,my gripes look rather pathetic! Hope you have a better evening.

Westernish · 09/03/2024 20:48

ALongHardWinter · 09/03/2024 17:50

Omg OP that sounds like the day from hell! And here's me moaning because I had to wait 20 minutes for the bus (app actually said it was due in 6 minutes) and then the traffic was a bloody nightmare. What should have been a 20 minute journey took 45 minutes. But compared to your day,my gripes look rather pathetic! Hope you have a better evening.

Your gripes are not at all pathetic! So infuriating having to wait for late buses!

Am pleased to report that, bar the dog stealing my custard tart, my day is ending better than it started!

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