Hey I'm new to posting on Mumsnet. I just wanted to some advice quickly please?
I've recently made friends with another mum at school who's lovely. I'd also consider her husband a friend/acquaintance too as we often chats school stuff on the playground as well. Have been round theirs a few times for coffee and our DC are "besties" so are what Id class as friends. Really nice couple. I'd hate to overstep boundaries and ruin a friendship.
Thing is, I've noticed this week that her husband looks quite a bit jaundiced. I used to be a medic many moons ago so I tend to spot these things. It's at a similar level of a family member who went on to uncover some pretty serious health issues after I & others pointed it out to them. Should I tactfully mention it to my friend? Or is she likely to think I'm sticking my beak in? I do know that they're likely aware of it already and understandably keeping whatever it is to themselves. I don't want them to think im fishing for private info ! That's genuinely not the case. I just don't want a scenario where god forbidding he discovers something later and turns out I'd seen a sign but kept quiet. I also don't want to worry them ! I don't always get it right with stuff like this. Often wondered if I'm autistic.
Sorry if too long !