@twistyizzy ,
‘Of course you didn't need to spend time printing, you could have just emailed it out to the parents who requested it! ‘
Nope, they asked for hard copy, and it wasn’t school policy
‘This is the dilemma: be an involved and engaged parent but get hated on by the teacher OR be disengaged, leave it all up to the school and get slated for not caring plus run the risk of not being able to fill any gaps left by supply teachers etc.’
It is how you ask questions that matter. When it was a proper dialogue where a parent asked and was grateful for good advice, it was great and very much part of the job. Where it is a parent presuming they know my job better than ai did…..well, no thanks.
‘You realise many professionals get micro managed in their jobs? ‘
Yip, and I choose not to do those jobs. Micromanagement should be for beginners, not experienced professionals who get great results and are popular (I did, and I was).
‘I support teachers massively but your attitude really grates on me. You quit because of marking and parents asking questions? Marking/feedback is all just part of the job in the same way as doing reports is just part of my job.’
Marking is very much part of the job. I was one of the first to mark every assessments and I marked virtually every piece of A level work to a very high level. But marking a GCSE prep which has been done in a rushed way, and mostly copied (pupils are all on Snapchat groups) is a complete waste of time. Far better to go through it in class.
‘Parental input I get can be annoying but at the end of the day should parents be invested in their DC's education or not? ‘
Parental input isn’t annoying and it is really important. But, unless I was medical, I wouldn’t tell my doctor what blood tests to order and, unless I was legal, I wouldn’t suggest to my lawyers what clauses needed to be included.
When parents have the same type of dialogue with teachers as they would with other professionals, it is really appreciated. When we are told how to teach and what to do, that is disrespectful and counterproductive.