Before I even start this. Please go easy on me in the comments. My ex of 6 years cheated on me so I put my guard up really easily around men. Yes I have a therapist.
I’d gone on 4 dates with a guy. I honestly loved every date in person they’ve all been a vibe.
Before we even started talking or going on dates he said he was a bad texter and he works 8-8 pm. Fine. But I didn’t know how bad. It’s awful. So recently, it’s been worse and worse in the realm of replies the other day was 2-3 full days between.
Today I just made the decision to bin it off. The poor replies and lack of consistency just don’t do it for me. I came out a 6 year relationship after being cheated on and I’ve just come to a stage where I had enough and couldn’t tolerate his awful texting. Communication is super important to me. I haven’t said it to him via message but I truly think it should be common sense.
On thing I learned after my breakup is time goes so fast and I can’t be bothered to spend it on someone who barely even offers the bare minimum.
The sole reason I’m binning it off is the bad texting. Am I being unfair or within reason here?