The things you said.
I accept ds has autism now . I did find it hard. 2 weeks later shouts at DS for saying he's autistic. "NO YOUR NOT"
There was no way I was gonna have the kids till they were older and could do things for themselves fuck that .
Me before you was the ex; can i have some help with the kids etc . YOU: I have been at work all day . I work , you don't. Your mother backing you up. YOUR to thick to not understand my day does not end at 4pm like yours does. You then came home wanting me to look after your needs .
When we used to go out as a family to eat. And you would tuck straight into your meal. Whilst I had to cut up the kids food sort them etc . Fuck me hey . Make sure your OK 👍
You used to blame me that you could not perform sexually. Made Me sound like a slag because I had more sexual encounters than you. You only had 3 even though you were yours late 40s /50s Only that was not true was it. Because you would later say you went with a person that lived down the road or you was with someone in the town we were passing... it doesn't matter we all have a past and I would say its normal. But why make me seem like some sort of hoe.
We broke up and got back together on several occasions. Because sometimes I would forget why we broke up in the first place. What a prick I was.
Not once did you get up to the kids when they were babys. You did not change one nappy . When I asked you to put their shoes on when they were toddlers as you was doing sweet fa . Your mum piped up " he's got to drive for 3 fucking hours "
You also seemed to slag my kids of to me alot. To be fair you slagged your own DD of as well . Telling me half stories about your DD and she would ruin meals out or special occasions. But you would leave the part out that triggered her to start with . That would come out later because you forget what you had told me . Won't slag of your favourite DC though will you .
My adult son came out as gay you were fine with it. No issues chatty etc . Still get on now all fine .
One weekend you was at mine we was all having a giggle. laughing etc you suddenly got up said you need to go your expression looked so upset. I thought something had happend. I caught up with you and we had a chat . You said you don't feel a part of things . You have no one. Your older kids are doing their own things although you do see them regularly and have family times etc. You said you feel on the outside of everything. You don't have a proper family unit you live with your mum. And your in your 50s. I had to point out that you do have people around you . Who clearly care for you.
My other son comes out as gay . Your the complete opposite. Said you don't want our kids to know about that shit . You dont want it around them etc. But really it's because you don't like my son. This caused you to throw another tantrum. This time o told you we are done 100% never again.
I have felt a massive weight lifting of my shoulders. You only ever added to any issues/difficulties I had. You made things worse you were not supportive at all .
You now have our kids fortnightly.at your mums . You get to play Disney dad . Whilst your mum does the parenting .
Yes I know i had kids with him what a prick I was . I can't put them back though so ...
This post is just a reflection really . Things I would like to point out but never will . Have left lots of as I was just saying what came to mind .