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Is this normal (school related)?

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TheChosenTwo · 29/02/2024 13:22

Ds (12) has an exemplary attendance record at school, until recently he’d had only one day off but before half term fell ill and had 2 whole weeks off with a virus which resulted in infection.
I kept school up to date calling them every day as requested.

I’ve just received an email from his form tutor asking me to come to a face to face meeting at 7:45am one morning next week with ds. I think it’s about catching up with missed work, the final paragraph of the email explains that he has been in touch with his other teachers asking for missing work.

Just asking if this is normal in your experience, I have had 2 dc go through the same school but they’ve never had more than a day or two off themselves so it’s not something that’s happened with us before.

I have worked in education for many years until recently although in primary and we didn’t provide work to catch up on if kids had been off ill although I suppose we may have done if the parents specifically asked for it! I understand the importance of attendance and the implications of non attendance in terms of gaps in knowledge so in principal if the meeting is about the missing work being caught up on i do understand, I think I’m just a bit taken aback!

Has anyone else had similar happen!

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Smartiepants79 · 29/02/2024 13:28

He’s in secondary school, yes?
And he’s missed 2 whole weeks of lessons? Not his fault I understand, but still missed.
I’d be pretty impressed that school was making such an effort to ensure he’s not fallen behind.
His previous attendance record is irrelevant isn’t it?
He’s not in trouble. They just want to make sure he’s up to speed. Good for them.

daisybrown37 · 29/02/2024 13:31

This sounds good to me. My son had a day off and missed an area that they were then tested on a
couple of weeks later and he had no clue!

I would be pleased that they are being proactive. It might just be the slides they used in the lessons, but helpful to know what they covered when he was off.

SaltySoo · 29/02/2024 13:37

I’d be pretty impressed that school was making such an effort to ensure he’s not fallen behind

Me too.

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TheChosenTwo · 29/02/2024 14:59

@Smartiepants79 i only mentioned his (and the other dc’s) previous sick records to explain why this may not have happened to us before. It’s not relevant to this meeting at all, no, but it just shows that I’m open to the idea that it might be a normal thing for schools to do if there are long periods of absences and we just hadn’t encountered it before.

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Wizardo · 29/02/2024 15:02

I’m quite surprised it is a F2F meeting not just an online meeting or a phone call. But i suppose it makes sense that he is now going to be miles behind and will need to devote some time to covering missed material.

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