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If a person is described as wholesome

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Pirelli · 23/02/2024 16:00

What sort of person does this conjure up in your mind?

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OhItsOnlyCynthia · 23/02/2024 16:27

Decent and dependable types. I used to work with a man I described as wholesome - he was a thoroughly good man. He wasn't boring at all, he was a good laugh. He was completely respectable and he never put a foot wrong with anyone.

Hoolihan · 23/02/2024 16:28

Kate Humble is a good example.

Pirelli · 23/02/2024 16:29

AncientBallerina · 23/02/2024 16:10

Easy to manipulate/naive- I was described as wholesome by someone who went on to engineer me into a relationship with long lasting consequences. I shudder when I hear the word.

Sorry if this might have been triggering @AncientBallerina

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ReadingLight · 23/02/2024 16:29

If I were using it of someone, rather than a dish, it wouldn’t be a compliment. Would definitely imply dull, decent, possibly naive, certainly someone who sees the world in tidy categories. Lacking in nuance.

Ruminate2much · 23/02/2024 16:31

Healthy, decent, honest, clean living.
Definitely NOT a smoker, significant drinker or taker of illegal drugs.
Probably no tattoos?
Overall sweet-natured person. Someone you'd trust your children with.
It's a lovely word, and I'd definitely see it as a compliment 😊

blackoverbillsmothers · 23/02/2024 16:33

pickledandpuzzled

Girl next door.

Sandy 1 rather than Sandy 2!

You’ve nailed it!
I’ve no problem with wholesome either but I’d rather be Sandy 2. Much more fun!

LadyEloise1 · 23/02/2024 16:43

pickledandpuzzled · 23/02/2024 16:04

Girl next door.

Sandy 1 rather than Sandy 2!

have no issue with wholesome- I’d assume healthy looking, friendly and helpful etc.
I spot people like this and think how nice they are.

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OmgshuuUp · 23/02/2024 16:56

I wouldn't describe a person as wholesome, who could live up to that?! We all have or at least had varying degrees of bad. Holly W is a fake snake not wholesome at all. She is very calculating and uses her sexuality to get ahead.

When I hear someone described as wholesome, how I would take it would depend on the tone and personality of the speaker, ie are they likely to be sarcastic?
If so then it means that that person is nice but dull, simple and safe or if the context indicates it was meant as a compliment that then the person is like a sweet old granny or lives honestly by the book and bakes things, making little cute home crafts. That they are sweet natured, cheerful, very polite and still have an innocent and optimistic outlook on life and others. They aren't very ambitious, homebodies, hugely family focused. They might be religious. They are very kind to a fault. No serious bad habits or addictions, sexually conservative.

Rockshore · 23/02/2024 17:12

@Hoolihan thats exactly who I first thought of.

My DD21 sometimes has what she calls a wholesome day or evening with her friend where they do something like have a picnic or play games rather than going out drinking so I think the modern take would be something like that.

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