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Birth rate hits record low - 1.49 children per woman

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MidnightPatrol · 23/02/2024 10:46

The ONS has released its latest data on the UK birthrate.

The number of children per women has dropped from 1.55 in 2022 to 1.49 in 2022 - the lowest on record.

This is the lowest number of births in the UK since 2002 - when the population was 10 million people smaller.

Do we think this problem will inevitably worsen? Are there particular reasons people are having less children (unique to the UK vs the rest of the world?).

Should we be taking steps to increase it / stop it reducing further?

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daffodilandtulip · 23/02/2024 13:00

It only affects pensions and services. Once the earth runs out of people, it'll be fine.

EasternStandard · 23/02/2024 13:01

MalagaNights · 23/02/2024 12:58

The people continuing to have larger families are religious and conservative communities.
So culture and politics are likely to shift with this.
So you may think that's a bad thing?

Who is going to save the planet if all the eco warriors don't have kids??

I find this blase 'we'll take one for the team' it'll be great for future generations both depressing and hilarious.

Depressing because I don't think people have really thought through the potential scale of human misery you are just easily dismissing.
The loneliness, the poverty, the lack of functioning community, the failure of the health and education system.
Probably propped/ patched up by (religious) immigrants.
So sod their economies? They sacrifice to try to keep ours limping along for as long as possible?
Doesn't seem a very moral plan.

And hilarious because of the god almighty wailing when energy prices rose and we realised we were going to be colder and poorer.
The idea everyone will understand and accept when their quality of life falls off a cliff is laughable. There's going to be anger and blame which could turn nasty.

What birthdate are you advocating for?

I can’t tell if this post applies to a high population and low resources or demographic shift

Tiredalwaystired · 23/02/2024 13:01

Hereyoume · 23/02/2024 11:20

Having children was encouraged by the church to ensure a continuous source of wealth for the institution. Subsequently, government also pushed the narrative to ensure a continuous source of tax revenue.

But people can now see it for what it is and have no desire to sacrifice their time, money, freedom and opportunities just to create another "good little tax payer".

Why break yourself financially, physically and emotionally, just to raise a child who will be slamming doors in your face at 14, screaming about how much they hate you and how you have ruined their life?

Most adults have very little contact or respect for their parents, truthfully, most are only interested in their inheritance, and wouldn't feel too bad at the funeral.

The birth rate will continue to decline as long as having a child remains so expensive.

Wow. That’s a negative take on familial relationships.

Not one I recognise with my teenagers, thankfully.

IpanemaCaipirinha · 23/02/2024 13:01

I thought this picture was an interesting one. You need to click on it to see the total figures;

Birth rate hits record low - 1.49 children per woman
EasternStandard · 23/02/2024 13:03

IpanemaCaipirinha · 23/02/2024 13:01

I thought this picture was an interesting one. You need to click on it to see the total figures;

That’s a great graphic

HollyKnight · 23/02/2024 13:04

There is also a lack of good quality men. Women are a lot more reluctant to settle for less than ideal partners these days and so many decide it's just not worth the risk of being left with all the work and responsibility.

LaPalmaLlama · 23/02/2024 13:05

MalagaNights · 23/02/2024 12:58

The people continuing to have larger families are religious and conservative communities.
So culture and politics are likely to shift with this.
So you may think that's a bad thing?

Who is going to save the planet if all the eco warriors don't have kids??

I find this blase 'we'll take one for the team' it'll be great for future generations both depressing and hilarious.

Depressing because I don't think people have really thought through the potential scale of human misery you are just easily dismissing.
The loneliness, the poverty, the lack of functioning community, the failure of the health and education system.
Probably propped/ patched up by (religious) immigrants.
So sod their economies? They sacrifice to try to keep ours limping along for as long as possible?
Doesn't seem a very moral plan.

And hilarious because of the god almighty wailing when energy prices rose and we realised we were going to be colder and poorer.
The idea everyone will understand and accept when their quality of life falls off a cliff is laughable. There's going to be anger and blame which could turn nasty.

There’s definitely truth in this- it’s part of the reason Israel has politically shifted as it has. A declining BR is problematic at societal level. The problem is, how to solve it. You can’t make individuals want more children. I have kids but am massively against anything that is effectively punitive taxation on the child free and wary of financial incentives as I don’t believe it would work- even if the government paid in full the costs of me bringing up a third child I still wouldn’t have had one because it’s time and emotional bandwidth not money that’s the barrier.

Reugny · 23/02/2024 13:06

egowise · 23/02/2024 12:40

'40 years ago was the 80's'

I have rewrote this comment over and over because this has made me very upset 😂😭

This came up on my social media in January and then I heard it on the radio.

Because you are older you don't realise that 20 years go was at the turn of the 21st century, 30 years ago was in the 1990s, etc.

You just get trapped thinking what 20 years ago etc was when you were in your teens/20s.

lemmefinish · 23/02/2024 13:08

As to how we pay for an older population, I would suggest focusing tax increases on wealth, starting by taxing all inheritances as income. Nobody deserves to inherit over a million pounds tax free.

We can’t hit income much more.

MalagaNights · 23/02/2024 13:10

I also find the anti family rhetoric depressing.

Having children is hard and not for everyone. But for most people creating and being part of a family and those relationships are the most meaningful thing in life.
80% of childless woman it was not by choice. People still want children. It's a deep human need for most people.

I think the mental health crisis will deepen as people feel life feels empty and without purpose without family.
Families are are foundational to our need to belong, to be loved and to have responsibility to others.

Yes your 14 year old might be annoying at times and you'll feel like throttling them but that doesn't mean you wouldn't also go to the ends of the earth and back for them if they needed you to.
The parent child bond is so deep and incomparable that it can't be replaced by money or better soil.

makeanddo · 23/02/2024 13:10

The headline is pretty meaningless without the detail. Only with this will we see the true extent of the problem, if it is a problem.

For example it's important to know if it's the As and Bs who are not having children and the Ds and Es having more children. Is there a difference in the birth rate within different ethnic groups etc. Only then will we know the extent of the problem.

Reugny · 23/02/2024 13:11

@lemmefinish They actually do have immigration but mainly from other places in Asia.

They also have a problem that Japanese women mainly, but also Japanese men don't want to have children with one another due to the stifling traditional expectations placed on them by their families.

greengreengrass25 · 23/02/2024 13:11

DogsDinner · 23/02/2024 12:54

It does seem inevitable that if you give women rights and the ability to earn their own living, they will choose to have very few children, including in countries a lot less well off than the U.K.. Government policies to encourage women to have more children don't seem to be very effective.

I see it as a very good thing for the planet, although I do think it is sad when women end up childless despite wanting children. We now live in a society which seems to frown on women having babies at a young age. If the norm is now to start your family in your late twenties or thirties, it leaves a very short window for women. I didn't have my first until my late thirties, so I could have easily missed the boat.

I also think people want to give their kids a certain lifestyle these days, which obviously limits the number of children you feel you can afford.

At some point we are going to have to tackle the demographic shift. We can't keep kicking it down the road with immigration. People seem to forget immigrants also get old, and long term, it will just make the problem worse.

I think there would be so many benefits to the U.K. if we would just embrace a gently declining population. A lot of the financial pressure on families comes from having to have 2 incomes just to afford accommodation. If housing prices were stagnant or declining, we wouldn't have to work so hard just to put a roof over our heads.

Maybe people would be inclined to have more babies if they could buy a family home on one average income, as was certainly possible for my parents in their early twenties.

I wish we would look at quality of life rather than how 'rich' the country is.

As to how we pay for an older population, I would suggest focusing tax increases on wealth, starting by taxing all inheritances as income. Nobody deserves to inherit over a million pounds tax free.

Also I think doctors need to have more honest conversations with very elderly people about treatment. Quality of life is important.

Ultimately I hope we can create a society where women can have the number of children they want. It's not for everyone, but my children have been nothing but a joy to me, even now they are teenagers!

Yes exactly

The cost of housing is a real problem

lemmefinish · 23/02/2024 13:13

housing or rather making housing the economy has really fucked things up.

Reugny · 23/02/2024 13:13

@MalagaNights if you look at research immigrants who come to the UK and have lots of children, find their own children tend to have the same amount as the peers they are brought up with.

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 13:16

If the population decreases house prices will go down
We should find an equilibrium

lemmefinish · 23/02/2024 13:18

If the population decreases house prices will go down

Theres a school of thought that when the boomers all die off there will be a glut of family homes on the market which will depress prices but i’m not sure. The government probably needs to keep high prices up to access that money towards care.

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 13:19

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 13:16

If the population decreases house prices will go down
We should find an equilibrium

https://sites.psu.edu/aspsy/2015/09/17/how-much-more-space-is-there/

Typically an animal population is not static and naturally fluctuates above and below carrying capacity. This phenomenon is an interesting aspect to life on earth and I would argue that the human race has yet to reach or define a carrying capacity. Perhaps, we are quickly reaching this juncture and a cataclysmic decline in human population will occur, forcing humans to reach equilibrium.

How much more space is there? | Applied Social Psychology (ASP)

https://sites.psu.edu/aspsy/2015/09/17/how-much-more-space-is-there

LaPalmaLlama · 23/02/2024 13:22

MalagaNights · 23/02/2024 13:10

I also find the anti family rhetoric depressing.

Having children is hard and not for everyone. But for most people creating and being part of a family and those relationships are the most meaningful thing in life.
80% of childless woman it was not by choice. People still want children. It's a deep human need for most people.

I think the mental health crisis will deepen as people feel life feels empty and without purpose without family.
Families are are foundational to our need to belong, to be loved and to have responsibility to others.

Yes your 14 year old might be annoying at times and you'll feel like throttling them but that doesn't mean you wouldn't also go to the ends of the earth and back for them if they needed you to.
The parent child bond is so deep and incomparable that it can't be replaced by money or better soil.

Right but even so you don’t need 5 kids to have that bond- you still get it with 1 or 2 kids and the strain on you is less as a result. There’s no evidence that more kids or more siblings makes people happier. There will always also be those who can’t have or don’t want kids so if people who do want kids have fewer, we’ll just end up below 2 and that’s just how it is. I’m not sure where your 80% comes from as Yougov did a survey in 2020 and 37% of childless British adults said they don’t want kids.

Octomingo · 23/02/2024 13:26

Having kids is expensive. We're a, largely, better educated society who have more choices. I would say about half of my uni friends remain child free in our 40s. A third of my school friends. I had 2 kids, because I'm one of 2, so it made sense.

Lots of kids tends to, but not always, be linked with more chaotic lives. One woman I was in school with has 8 kids. She started when we were 16. She never had any money (according to fb) and is in an on/off relationship with the dad.

I do worry that we're the wrong way round now- more old people than young. Those of us in our 40s area already paying the price. How bad will it be for our kids? Come to think of it, how bad will it be for us if we're propping up generations above and more being propped up underneath?

MalagaNights · 23/02/2024 13:26

Reugny · 23/02/2024 13:13

@MalagaNights if you look at research immigrants who come to the UK and have lots of children, find their own children tend to have the same amount as the peers they are brought up with.

Maybe it depends on how religious they are? It also depends on how economically successful they are.
The more successful the fewer children.

Wealthier people have fewer children even though expense is often given as a reason for the falling birth rate.

It is still conservative religious communities who remain the only groups in the west maintaining birth rate. It's true of conservative religious Muslim, Jewish, and Christians such as Mormon and traditional Catholics in the USA. We don't have much of a conservative Christian community in the UK.

Maybe the solution is we'll all just end up Amish?
Because they keep having kids and know how to use a plough? 😁

Gloriosaford · 23/02/2024 13:28

Population collapse here we come.

greengreengrass25 · 23/02/2024 13:32

AdamRyan · 23/02/2024 13:16

If the population decreases house prices will go down
We should find an equilibrium

It never does though with constant immigration and housing being bought as investment by non domiciles

Octavia64 · 23/02/2024 13:33

I remember the 1980s.

I remember news reports and articles about how population growth was dooming the world, and that everyone was going to starve to death because there would be too many people.

I remember charities appealing for money to open contraception/birth control clinics in Africa so that women had the choice.

I remember debates about whether China's one child policy should be introduced in other countries as well - it was considered a really good thing.

The mood music has really changed!

I think that these policies and movements largely worked, and that people responded by having fewer children.

In addition, I remember studying something called the population transition at uni. This is basically the point at which additional children become a burden not an asset.

So in Niger, and in Britain in the past, children worked in the fields or in the family business from a young age. They were productive. They were also your old age pension in a society that had no state support. They supported you when you were old and couldn't work.

But in Britain, as children slowly were not allowed to work, and began to go to school, and first the friendly societies and then the old age pension happened, children cost more and weren't the only form of pension.

So people had fewer.

Now children are incredibly expensive, both in terms of money and in terms of time. You need a big house if you want lots of children. You need a big car. And as a parent there is absolutely zero return on that investment.

I reckon it'll polarise - if you are a sahm an extra child is not that expensive. You are already out of work and that is the main cost. So people will either have one or two kids or lots and lots.

Gloriosaford · 23/02/2024 13:34

Desecratedcoconut · 23/02/2024 11:45

I'm assuming the people who say good are particularly insulated from massive financial and social instability?

Or trying to kid themselves that they are, or just not thinking it through at all 🤷🏼‍♀️
To be fair we have up until now focused only on the consequences of too many new humans, I think few people anticipated a situation where the opposite would occur, let alone be a problem.