Hello,
Posting on this board for traffic.
So this may be a bit long but quite soon after my DD was born I noticed she was very unsettled, irritable, had an upset stomach, eczema on her forehead, swollen eyes, terrible reflux/vomit, had colic, she had wheezy breathing, was breathing shallow after feeds and along with other symptoms was just uncomfortable.
I saw many professionals who fobbed me off and said I was a new mum and that the above is quite common. They said she'll grow out of it and sent me on my way. I even took her to A&E twice due to concerns with her breathing.
One Saturday evening she had been crying so much and I was so sleep deprived from just the general feeds with the other symptoms and pain she was in on top really making it all so difficult, I decided to call 111 and was put through to an out-of-hours GP who did a questionnaire with me and said my daughter scored a fair amount of points to be prescribed CMPA milk because she had a lot of the symptoms. I collected the milk and was told to trial it for six weeks and then go back to 'normal' milk and see what happens.
Throughout the time that I was trialling the Aptamil Pepti 1 milk with her, she had TERRIBLE reflux. She would arch her back so much after feeds, would cry during feeds, would gag a lot, would have regular hiccups, didn't want to be laid flat, wouldn't nap properly etc. Went to the doctors again a few times, got fibbed off and eventually got prescribed Gaviscon. Gaviscon didn't really do anything so we went back and got prescribed Omeperazole. By the time we got around to getting prescribed that it had been the six week trial. I told the GP that I'd like to start a fresh trial on the Pepti 1 because I want to see how her symptoms are after the reflux is dealt with. The GP agree and prescribed more alongside the Omeperazole and booked in a review. Fast forward, I'm due for her review tomorrow and her symptoms still persist. She still feels discomfort whilst feeding, she still seems uncomfortable and wakes from naps after 15-20 mins. She also cries when being fed and during feeds. She regularly still has an upset stomach and reflux, has awful wind that smells terrible, she still sounds wheezy and more importantly she cries for hours everyday - a high pitched painful cry for the majority of the day. It's really hard for me to do anything such as even have a shower as she doesn't want to nap, constantly wants some sort of movement whether that's being held and bounced/in the pram etc. I've noticed she's also started consuming less formula. She was starting to take 5oz but has now gone down to 2-3oz. Maybe sometimes 4oz. She is still gaining weight because she comfort feeds I think due to the pain but she also refuses milk between the feeds but wants it at the same time? I know that makes no sense but that's what she does.
Anyways, long story short I feel as though she may require Neocate formula. How do I go about getting this? One GP told me that a paediatrician has to prescribe it. She's been referred but it's been weeks and still no appointment. Honestly, it breaks my heart t see her feel so uncomfortable and be in so much pain. I truly believe that's what she needs after trying Pepti 1, Gaviscon and Omeprazole. I believe that the symptoms that the medicines are trying to treat are related to her not being on Neocate and that she may not really even need as much medication if the formula agrees with her more.
How can I explain my view to the GP and get it prescribed without them saying it's 'your first baby - babies are like this, just let them cry it out and grow out of it'. I really need the GP to take this seriously as it's starting to impact my mental health as my baby is so unsettled and unhappy most of the time and I cannot keep up with constantly pushing the pram or rocking her and not having a shower/always ordering food because I can't manage to cook with her being so unsettled etc. I adore my little girl but surely we can't go on like this?