A friend of mine is on holiday. I am not interested in her holiday but ive tried to show some interst. She has shared her photos via wassap and I have politely showed some interest whilst thinking wtf these are so boring. Anyway we have chatted via wassap about her holiday (she is still away) and then I changed the topic and saw a lovely dress and said this is a lovely dress and wassapped her a pic. She saw it and had a go at me saying she does not want to talk about anything else except her holiday and it was odd for me to send a wassap message about something else. I wrote back and said if that was me I would not care. When I am on holiday I do not control what people send me and I dont say to them only chat about my holiday/ She then said people normally say to me do you have any pics to send so I replied and said to her you send me pics anyway so why would I ask to see pics when I know full well you would send them to me anyway.
She again said my messages were odd because they were not about her holiday and I in turn said she was rude to complain because at the end of the day it really does not matter. Then she said it matters to me. I guess i can understand where she is coming from because I told her not to send me any photos of snow. She has gone to a country where there is thick snow and I dont like snow so I said ok I will respect your wishes if you respect mine and dont send me any snow pics and we just left it at that. Who is right or wrog here Do I have the right to discuss any topic with her whilst she is on holiday but obviously now she has told me she doesnt like it I will not talk about anything else until she gets home. It would not bother me but it seems to bother her.
What does anyone else do. When on holiday would you be annoyed to receive a messsage from someone saying oh hello I just bought this coat? As I said, if i am on holiday peop0le can send me any wassap message on any top or any suubject and it wokuld not bother me in the least
Maybe I am different to most