57 here....and a lot is going to happen (or could happen) in the next few years which will influence when I can retire.
I don't hate my job, so happy to keep going for a while yet. But want to enjoy retirement when I'm still young enough.
Currently supporting 2 out of 3 children, but DD1 has got a grad job starting in the summer, so will be "off the payroll". Another year or two before DD2 will be independent.
We have 10 years of the mortgage left, however our equity is pretty high, and we could easily wipe it out by downsizing, which we want to do once the kids are gone.
We have a variety of decent pensions, particularly for DH, who has a 30-year DB pension.
All parents are still around, but hitting their 80s....who knows if they will develop long term health issues which will impact our ability to work, but there's a lot of family money which will probably come my way at some point (no guarantees etc etc).
So....on balance, if life goes according to plan I will be able to retire in the next 5-6 years, early 60s.
BUT.....DH hates his job, would retire tomorrow if he could. It's very unstable at the moment, and if he loses his job I don't know what he will do. At 55, he's really too young to retire - I've told him he needs to stay on the hamster wheel for a few years. As least until we've got rid of dependents and mortgage. If he retires, I won't be so interested in staying in work, but money will be tight if I retire too.....aargh. Too many "unknowns"!!