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Anyone able to interpret my dream?

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IChangedForThis · 19/02/2024 08:03

I keep having a dream where I'm trying to lock a back door to a house and just when I think I've done it I push down on the handle and the door is still unlocked. I'm inside the house and don't feel like I'm being chased by anything or hiding, but I begin to panic when the key just keeps turning in the lock rather than locking the door.
It's always the same back door in the house I grew up in. My parents still live there now but the door is no longer there.

I wake up feeling glad it was a dream and that the back door to my house locks. I've had the dream a couple of times this year and had it a few times before too.

Can anyone interpret?
Thanks

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BaroqueInterlude · 19/02/2024 08:07

I think it's reflecting insecurity - there's something you're worried about and you can't find a way to fix it, or to get closure if it's something that was in the past. If it's a recurring dream, do the times you have it have anything in common? If it's your parents' house, are they a worry to you at all - health problems/ageing etc?

seafronty · 19/02/2024 08:08

Its just a random collection of images in your brain and doesn't mean anything. H2H.

Easipeelerie · 20/04/2024 07:23

seafronty · 19/02/2024 08:08

Its just a random collection of images in your brain and doesn't mean anything. H2H.

Resurrecting this as I want a dream interpreted. I disagree that dreams are random images. I don’t get stress dreams involving specific images unless there is a change going on in my life.

At the moment, I have the opportunity for a small promotion which I’m a bit over qualified for. I’m in my mid 50s. In the past I’ve held more significant roles but in the last 10 years I’ve had a niche and respected position but with very little management responsibility. The new role puts me back in a minor management role that on the one hand, I could do standing on my head but on the other hand I feel anxious about as I’ve steadied my life by keeping work non threatening. I’m conscious that senior management know little about me and I almost want to do the application to showcase what I’ve done/can do, rather than as a means to actually get the promotion.

Not had a stress dream for years, but last night I dreamt I was in a new place and had been vacuuming but the vacuum wouldn’t switch off. I didn’t know if I should use it anyway or leave it lying there running. I didn’t seem to be able to access any help to sort the problem. I had a striving feeling to sort it bu5 was getting nowhere. In the dream it really upset me. I think I thought it had been tampered with. I also was using a bike or bikes that had been tampered with and gears removed. I felt confused in the dream about whether or not I’d still be able to ride the bike. I think I tried to but was aloud as I was riding.

I can pretty much make my own interpretation of the dream but I’d be interested in the thoughts of others. Thanks for reading.

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notanothernana · 20/04/2024 07:29

I think the significance is the not being able to switch it off but not wanting to waste it? Is this your job situation? You're happy but a sense you're wasting your talent?

LynnImnotdrivingaminimetro · 20/04/2024 08:03

@IChangedForThis

Hi OP - I’m no expert but dreams are best interpreted by the person having them. I do t buy into the generalised interpretations and so on as dreams are so deeply personal. What I try and do is get back to the emotion I felt in the dream. You say panic?

I would try and unpack how I felt about the door or it being in parents house. And interesting how it’s not about danger from someone else (e.g. not being chased). But something to do with worry, control, safety those sorts of things.

wish I could also interpret my own dreams clearly but I try and focus about the real feelings I have in them and try to unpack them.

GoodOldEmmaNess · 20/04/2024 08:17

seafronty · 19/02/2024 08:08

Its just a random collection of images in your brain and doesn't mean anything. H2H.

What do you mean by 'random'? Do you think they are uncaused? Do you think that various brain processes just accidentally magicked into a coherent-ish sequence of images and narratives?
Of course the generalised, one-size-fits-all interpretation of dreams is pretty daft - a bit like astrology. But that is a far cry from saying that the individual dreams that individual people have aren't partially generated by their waking concerns, experiences, relationships etc.
We take our waking preoccupations into our sleep. Of course we do. Otherwise why would dreams ever bear any relation to our waking lives and the characters in them? And precisely because our sleeping brain then does weird shit to them (ie processes that may be purely neurological rather than psychological), dreams are capable of giving us a fresh perspective on those preoccupations and even the odd insight. For example, that may reveal connections that are not salient in our waking life.
I hate the kind of smug faux rationalism you sometimes see on MN that poo poos people's interest in their dreams.

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