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Do you set a budget for your food shopping or do you just buy what you want/need?

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Springisintheair01 · 16/02/2024 19:46

I used to be good at budgeting but I don’t particularly do it where food is concerned any more as it’s only me and a teenager at home now.

I am definitely shopping a lot, spending too much and wasting more than I would like. I can eat pretty simply myself but dc is very fussy and on and off certain foods. They also don’t like eating the same thing two days in a row whereas I could easily eat the same meal two or three times. I am always aware of costs when I’m shopping and buy cheaper brands where I can but I know I need to plan better and use up what we have.

I’m sure if you have a big family you have to meal plan and budget whereas I have got used to shopping every couple of days for a few things because I’m not feeding lots of people. I am wondering what everybody else does.

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Retiredearly61 · 16/02/2024 20:18

Three weeks out of four I put in whatever I want, then on last week of month usually more careful. But by then cupboards and freezer are quite full. On week 4 I make two lists, stuff we need and stuff we definitely don’t need, this stops me putting stuff in just in case. Week 4 will have less expensive cuts of meat and less treats. This way I meet my monthly budget but we’ve had 3 weeks of feasting and only one of famine

Alchemistress · 16/02/2024 20:19

Only me and DH.

We buy what we want within reason but most stuff gets used - if it gets to the end of the week and there's random stuff in the fridge I'll make a stew or soup with the veg. Or roast the veg and have it with pasta/ Parmesan.

The thing we never seem to finish up is hummus even though I love it.

I usually go to Aldi once a week for fruit and veg ( we don't eat meat), household things like loo roll, kitchen roll, washing up liquid etc, tinned stuff and cereal/ bread. That's usually about £50.

Then we top up with a few bits during the week from whatever supermarket is nearest.

I have a £10 a day lunch budget on the 4 days I'm in work but that also has to cover any coffees so not a huge amount. That would be the first thing to go if I had to make changes.

Mum2jenny · 16/02/2024 20:20

No budget but always have a shopping list. However if dh comes with me, we are always at least £50 more than if I went alone.

Justkeepswimmingswimming · 16/02/2024 20:20

Meal plan and online shopping once a week. Occasionally a top up shop. I can’t be arsed with going to the shop multiple times a week.

Mum2jenny · 16/02/2024 20:22

Once a week shopping is sufficient for me. Not keen on online stuff as the dates are never too good. If I’m shopping instore, I check the dates and if they are not good, I just don’t buy it.

Itwasfinetillitwasnt · 16/02/2024 20:22

Yes £70 every 10 days. For 3 older teenagers and one adult. Two have afrid and one gluten free.
I meal plan and shop online so I can be really strict. I bulk buy rice, pasta, tea bags, washing up liquid, coffee etc when on offer.
I also have a few cheap night meals eg egg on toast/ Jacket potato with cheese and beans.

HelenHywater · 16/02/2024 20:25

Yes I have a monthly budget and meal plan to stick to that. It's fairly generous by some standards - me and 3 teens, 2 dogs and 3 cats (and occasional (very expensive) visits from older kids who are at university).

Love51 · 16/02/2024 20:28

Somewhere in between. When I was partnered but without kids I figured out that if I splashed the cash a little bit on a more extravagant Friday night dinner I wouldn't feel the urge to eat out! Now we have 2 adults and 2 tweens I still don't put salmon or steak in my trolley with reckless abandon but I will buy preferred cheeses, bread, fruits, and deli stuff so people don't feel deprived. Same theory really, make eating at home more appealing thank eating out, save a fortune.

ConsuelaHammock · 16/02/2024 20:28

I don’t have a budget as such but I know the price of most things and will stock up when they’re on offer. I’m also a big fan of yellow stickers.
My last online shop cost £190 😱.

TheChosenTwo · 16/02/2024 20:30

No budget, just buy what we want/need.
Have definitely had times when the dc were young and we had to be a bit more careful but now I’m just very grateful that we can buy what we want.

Ponderingwindow · 16/02/2024 20:35

We are lucky enough to not need to budget. We do try to stock up on long-lasting staples when they go on sale.

bravotango · 16/02/2024 20:35

£100 per week onto the spending card to do the weekly shop (me, DH, DS and Dcat), then once per month on payday we do a toiletries/cat food/litter shop and fill the car with fuel. Not a penny more!

Springisintheair01 · 16/02/2024 20:35

Yes I always spend a lot more when dc is with me! I prefer to have a list of what we need and stick to it. If I wander around putting what I fancy in the trolley I will spend much more.

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kelladne · 16/02/2024 20:38

No budget. I do a rough meal plan but these days it's just buying roughly the right amount of stuff for certain meals but not allocating to a particular day. Sometimes I don't get it right and we end up with too much stuff and some fresh food gets put in the freezer, or we don't have quite enough but I can throw together a store cupboard pasta meal. Family of 5. I do all shopping online once a week. Don't need to top up. We're fortunate that we can buy what we need/want, though I tend to choose things on offer and own-brand products.

Icantbedoingwithit · 16/02/2024 20:42

No list, no budget, no meal
plan. But I wish I did. I spend far too much on food and it’s getting harder to afford it. We were Poor growing up so I am obsessed with having a full fridge and cupboards.

CeeJay81 · 16/02/2024 20:42

Fairly strict budget of £125pw for family of 4, plus cat. 30% off coop own brand is really helpful for thag though and even better when there's meat already reduced, plus the 30% off. 😁

Noicant · 16/02/2024 20:44

Not since DD was born, before I was very careful and meal planned. Now I just buy whatever we need.

Mementomorissons · 16/02/2024 20:47

I just buy what I want. It's the one area I won't set a budget for

Bbq1 · 16/02/2024 20:48

Buy what I want when I want. Me, dh and an 18 year old.

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 16/02/2024 20:52

I buy what we need. Some weeks I might spend £70 other weeks I might spend £160, it really just depends. Probably spend around £600 per month.

5 of us, 2 adults and DC 14, 12, 11 plus 2 cats (that are both greedy AF!)

RosesAndHellebores · 16/02/2024 20:54

I meal plan, have a list and there is no waste. But we have what we want and I don't have to worry about cost. We have good meat and fish and lots of fruit, veg and salad stuffs.

CeliaCanth · 16/02/2024 21:04

I meal plan in an effort to avoid waste but don’t have a specific budget. Plus tend to go for quality, so choose higher welfare meat and so on. Fussy cats tend to push the bill up by a fair amount!

MrsMuji · 16/02/2024 21:06

We make sure we don’t go over £100 a week on food (family of 4)
That includes a top up shop of fruit & veg during the week.
We stick to it by meal planning, we eat a Mediterranean type diet so our shopping list is pretty consistent!

Hatty65 · 16/02/2024 21:10

Similar to you, OP. There is DH and myself at home and random teenage child (19) who may or may not appear for days at a time.

However, I'm also beginning to realise that we spend a lot on food, and this is probably the only area where I can actually cut back. Trying to plan more and buy less.

Springisintheair01 · 16/02/2024 21:13

I could definitely save money if I physically shopped less. I find myself shopping little and often and even a small basket of stuff is £30+ in Tesco each time.

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