Everything - it's not a palace. However, the blood, sweat, tears, and put into getting this house when I fled domestic abuse 23 years with four then youngsters, the aftermath including hidden homeless for 2 and a half years, the whole system of this country involved my home is our safety, place I am happy and my now adult youngsters have a safe home if they ever need it. I doubt it as they are happy with good lives.
However, if you had been where we had, you would get it. In those 2 years, I had 8 moves. My children had to spend a short period in the care system as well.
Everything about our home was fought for, built on love and safety. Those 2 and a half years took my already fragile mental health and left me with another mirade of health issues, life long.
Absolutely no regrets. We were finally safe and away from the ex.
I happily remarried, too. My late husband is my soul mate, best friend, and, the dad, and grandpa he didn't have to be.
We have a simple home, full of love, laughter, and sadness, too when my 2nd husband unexpectedly passed away. You know what - it's really, it's my solace and where many gave stayed when they have needed a safe place too