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Cultural differences Scotland and England

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CauleyMacGlochlin · 11/02/2024 15:14

So surprised to see on a recent thread that in England secondary school pupils are often not allowed out of school for lunch until 6th form, which Google tells me means 16-18. I'm gobsmacked. I've never heard of anything like this in Scotland and I've lived all over the country (grew up in Glasgow and moved around in adulthood)

I also recently discovered that English school pupils can't leave education at 16. They have to stay in education til 18 unless they have an apprenticeship.

Got me thinking about cultural differences between the countries that I've maybe been oblivious all this time. Any others?

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Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 11/02/2024 21:16

Garlicdoughball · 11/02/2024 21:15

I’ve never had any kind of nuggety noogah, or not more than once anyway. I have it filled along with Tunnocks Teacakes as weird sugary shit that tastes of f’all.

You need your taste buds checking. First the tableaux and now the noogahr. Madness.

Edinburgal · 11/02/2024 21:19

SummerDays2020 · 11/02/2024 21:11

I remember older relatives would always put a coin in a new purse that they gave you here in England.

Thats in Scotland too

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 11/02/2024 21:19

RainbowZebraWarrior · 11/02/2024 21:16

1970s born child of Newcastle Upon Tyne here and we also called it Nugget.

We probably have a lot more in common up here (phrases and traditions) with the Scots than we do with England. Certainly most of the stuff that's been mentioned already.

And I've just placed an order for some fruit pudding, Ayrshire bacon, potato scones and square sausage, thanks to this thread being a timely reminder that I needed to stock up.

Oh, and M&S up here sell Scottish plain

I'm pretty sure that nougat on its own is usually pronounced "nooget" here. It's specifically the ice cream that's called a single or double nugget. Do they serve those outwith Scotland?

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purpletrees16 · 11/02/2024 21:20

Scotinoz · 11/02/2024 20:37

As a Scot living in England, the Sunday trading hours is one of my biggest grumbles. Bloody annoying when you can’t nip into Tesco early, or late when you forget something for tea 😂

https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/mar/09/millennials-snp-sunday-trading-laws-problem-independence

It was to do with workers rights not feign protected in the English law compared to the Scottish one …. But at the time it did feel spiteful!

The SNP is voting against Sunday trading laws. Here’s why that’s a problem | Retail industry | The Guardian

By taking a stand over laws that only directly affect England and Wales, the SNP are pointing up a possible difficulty of independence

https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/mar/09/millennials-snp-sunday-trading-laws-problem-independence

Garlicdoughball · 11/02/2024 21:20

purpletrees16 · 11/02/2024 21:13

i am wondering if this is just an age thing. I walked home to and from school from primary 5 but that was the mid 90s. There was lollipop lady for the only big road.

I do see primary aged kids walking themselves to school near me… but on Mumsnet it appears to be banned in most places.

Probably, my DCs are in S6 and S3.. My NDN walks his primary aged DC to school and I know they are quite happy letting them “play out”, go to the park without adults etc other times.

I was at primary school in the 70s and 80s and we would have trotted down the hill to the shop on our own after school.

cinders222 · 11/02/2024 21:21

Edinburgal · 11/02/2024 21:02

Im so confused. I live in Scotland. I have never even heard of a 'nugget' from the ice cream van - we call those Oysters??!

Nougat - pronounced nooga is the marshmallowy type stuff.

If i heard anyone say nugget for nougat, like @MaggieBroonofGlebeSt i would think they were thick.

Valet - I would say a car vall-et-er would va-lay my car.

Cooperative - co-op

An Oyster is different from a nugget. Oysters are round and Nuggets are rectangle both filled with ice cream.
Nougat is a chewy sweet with nuts and honey etc.

North Lanarkshire in Scotland and really want a Nugget now.

Scottishskifun · 11/02/2024 21:22

I'm English but lived in Scotland for 14 years now.
Would say differences are mostly word based or food related.
I found macaroni cheese pies very strange when I first moved!
Every soft drink which isn't water being called juice - fizzy juice, juice and diluting juice!
Bins being called buckets (still don't get that one it's longer to say bucket!)

Cultural differences would say the English love/obsession with having a roast on a Sunday definitely isn't replicated up here.
Christenings aren't as common up here (highlands and Islands aside)- probably because schools are allocated due to catchment and no need to show being christened for school applications!

Garlicdoughball · 11/02/2024 21:23

AngelinaFibres · 11/02/2024 20:56

Stayed in a hotel in Scotland. The restaurant meal on Sunday was called Sunday tea. Fair enough. It was toast and jam first followed by huge Sunday roast followed by a 3 tiered cake stand filled with cakes,scones and sandwiches. If was obviously a big thing because there were big family groups gathering together. Loved it actually but couldn't eat anything like all of it.

I don’t see this on menus in Edinburgh but I did in Fife not that long ago. Had a nostaglic
moment.

SummerDays2020 · 11/02/2024 21:24

Notsuretoputit · 11/02/2024 19:40

Nah that’s complete bollocks.

In the South East England I've never experienced anyone putting money in my baby's pram (shame) and yes we have the skin on the fish.

feellikeanalien · 11/02/2024 21:25

Talking of "nougat" reminds me of the Modern Homes exhibition they used to have in the Kelvin Hall in Glasgow in the 70s. There was always a stand with huge slabs of what was called nougat and it was all different flavours. I'm not sure now what it actually was.

GrandTheftWalrus · 11/02/2024 21:25

I love plain bread but no one else does so I get a loaf (or 2) and keep them in the freezer and treat myself to a couple of slices toasted every so often with real butter on it.

motheronthedancefloor · 11/02/2024 21:25

We have different exams and start / finish the school year at different times. It does frustrate me how ignorant many English are of the other nations, especially our education systems.

Apprenticeships are devolved and some apprenticeships available in England aren't available here and vice versa - so my England based boss who thinks he's helpful by suggesting I do a 'free' apprenticeship through my work doesn't realise that its free levy funding for my English colleague, but for me, you have to pay for it. So, guess who is getting to do an apprenticeship and who isn't?

You go to your local school. If you want to go somewhere else, you put a placement request in. You don't have to apply for numerous schools and hope one will give your kid a place.

A fish supper is more likely to be a haddock supper in Scotland than in England (always cod).

We have square sausage and eat it in a roll like a burger.

Jam/cream on a scone in England. Up here, at least where I am, its butter.

Steak and Kidney pie.....fuck that.

It doesn't take 5 minutes to get from Edinburgh to Glasgow or vice versa 🙄

Saying 'outwith' and 'the big light'.

Linnet · 11/02/2024 21:25

I’m in Scotland. At my kids primary school the playground was open and the kids were supervised at playtime’s and lunchtimes but the school building was locked so you had to buzz to be let in. When my youngest was in p3 the school moved to a purpose built campus for nursery through to secondary. That primary has a locked playground and again you have to be buzzed into the building to get into both the primary and secondary. For primary I think most children walked to and from school themselves probably from about p4.

The secondary school pupils are allowed to leave school at lunchtimes. I don’t think any of the secondaries in my city stop their pupils leaving school at lunchtime. The school my girls went to didn’t allow you to leave school during a free period, and it was only 5th and 6th years that got them, but I know that other schools in our city do allow them to leave.

We live in the east of Scotland where I’m from and my husband is from the west coast.

We both say nugget.

He grew up watching Glen Michael’s cavalcade, I didn’t as I had ITV and he had STV.

I vaguely remember there being orange walks when I was a child, certainly not many but there haven’t been any in my city for many many years. Where my husband grew up there were orange walks, he thinks possibly every other week, there were lots of them anyway and they went right past his house.

We also say the big light, juice for any fizzy drink, diluting juice for orange squash and I use the word outwith quite often. We also go through to Edinburgh or Glasgow.

purpletrees16 · 11/02/2024 21:25

For the people saying skin on fish and chips is not an English thing. I had fish and chips in London on Friday from a chippy and it came with skin. Never had chippy fish and chips in England without skin… but then I always order haddock (the far superior fish.)

SummerDays2020 · 11/02/2024 21:26

tuvamoodyson · 11/02/2024 19:43

I say ‘watch’ for careful or for my DH to get out of my way! (Excuse me to strangers!!)

We'd say 'watch out!'

Fondantginger · 11/02/2024 21:27

123dogdog · 11/02/2024 16:52

I left secondary school 2013. My school had no uniform till after I left, it started the year I left. Pupils are still allowed out at lunch, as the local shops are heaving at lunch. My primary school, and the other two in my town have no big fence. My old primary school still has the same waist high fence along the road edge, with an opening at one corner at the path. There’s no fence on the two sides that border a path.

as for religion, central belt is much more religious, particularly Glasgow, than say the north east. Also i feel like the Church of Scotland is Presbyterian, whereas Church of England is a bit different. Also the free church in the highlands in particular, is a bit well different.

@123dogdog my secondary school also has no uniform but this was really uncommon….suburb beginning with W by any chance?

MirandaPr1estly · 11/02/2024 21:27

GrandTheftWalrus · 11/02/2024 21:12

Starts with an L?

Yes, although I moved to Glasgow a few years ago.

Howling that most mumsnetters fear being outed by their DH’s ultra exclusive, middle class hobbies and we’ve been outed by orange walks 😂

soundsys · 11/02/2024 21:27

Itslegitimatesalvage · 11/02/2024 16:53

Walking home from school too. I’m in Scotland and after P1 (so P2 onwards) the kids are just let out at home time and you can be there to get them or they can walk
home themselves or with siblings or friends. It’s up to you. The schools don’t make rules on letting the kids leave or walk home from a specific age. I keep seeing on here that kids in England aren’t allowed to leave without a parent until they get to P4/P5 age at least.

It's bonkers - my kids school they won't let them walk home alone before Y5. In theory they don't let them walk to school alone before that either!

sassanach · 11/02/2024 21:28

weebarra · 11/02/2024 16:45

That's another one - I know they're not in all areas of England, but we don't have grammar schools. Also not SATS or 11+.
Doesn't mean out education system isn't awful though.
I'm a careers adviser and I'm really proud of Scotlands careers service.
Professionally qualified careers advisers available to everyone of all ages for free.
Impartial advice for pupils in every state school in the country.

waves to @weebarra

The salary is SO much better too for careers advisers in Scotland and the careers guidance is consistent from school to school.

In England, school careers guidance is hit and miss, delivered by pretty much anyone, and the only decent career guidance is found in universities, but many universities are reducing their careers services too.

GrandTheftWalrus · 11/02/2024 21:29

When I go to Glasgow I say I'm going into toon. Mainly as I can see the st enoch centre from my flat. We go through to Edinburgh.

I remember Glen Michael coming to my primary school in about 1992. Also I always got my birthday read out on his show as my papa worked for STV and when I was born Mrs Mack from take the high road gave my mum a real fur Teddy dyed pink.

I was also meant to be in take the high road but I was 18 months old and wouldn't call another woman mum. And I was stv mascot when I was about 2/3. Unfortunately no pics and I contacted stv and they didn't have any either.

Scottishskifun · 11/02/2024 21:30

@motheronthedancefloor why does it annoy you about not knowing the education system?! People know what they experience. Most of my scottish friends were unaware of how A levels worked or GCSE number or marking system. It's not being ignorant just not knowing a different system. Are you aware of the Northern Irish school system or that in Wales all children learn Welsh?

GrandTheftWalrus · 11/02/2024 21:30

MirandaPr1estly · 11/02/2024 21:27

Yes, although I moved to Glasgow a few years ago.

Howling that most mumsnetters fear being outed by their DH’s ultra exclusive, middle class hobbies and we’ve been outed by orange walks 😂

Haha! I really want to know how old you are now to see if I know you!

I've moved away as well. I'm just outside Glasgow now.

Edinburgal · 11/02/2024 21:30

The Catholic and non denominational school divide is very apparent in Glasgow and surrounding areas. Its my understanding that wherever you live in these areas you will have the choice of a Catholic or non dom school. As far as im aware, you might get the odd Catholic school else where but i grew up in East Lothian and there are no Catholic schools high schools there. Iv just googled primaries and there are actually a couple of catholic primaries in the poorer towns in the county. I think it must be something left over in the old mining towns. Where i grew up, we had a minister from every church in the town take an assembly on a monthly rotation. I had no idea what my peers believed, it never crossed my mind.

Garlicdoughball · 11/02/2024 21:31

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 11/02/2024 21:16

You need your taste buds checking. First the tableaux and now the noogahr. Madness.

I hate square sausage too, have never had one made with what takes like decent quality meat. Any recommendation gratefully received. I don’t do “mystery meat”.

birchtree23 · 11/02/2024 21:31

@pitterypattery00
We live in Moray and my husband's from Glasgow. He can't get the 'back of.... and the morn's morn is another one he can't stand. 😂

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