Is 2 weeks excessive to be off?

[Lionssmith]

Early pregnancy loss. Just don’t feel like I’m up to concentrating at the moment and would rather focus on self care and feeling better, I’m still very emotional. I also work with very young children and families so I will likely find that part difficult for a bit.

One week off is special leave at full pay, also allowed a second week as sick leave at full pay which would not count on my sickness record as it’s protected as pregnancy related leave.

On the one hand I like distractions, I’m barely ever absent from work but I do have a hectic schedule and don’t always eat well, rest well etc which I feel I really need to in the next few weeks. I don’t want to be judged though or for anyone to think I’m slacking and need to get back on my horse. My manager and one colleague know what’s happening and are supportive of whatever I choose to do.

What would you do?

I also worry (god forbid this happens) but that I experience another in the future, then taking a fortnight every time might raise some eyebrows

Do you feel you need that second week? If so, take it.

It's a very personal thing. I had 3 early losses (5/6 weeks). First one put me in hospital with the pain so I definitely needed a few days. After the next 2 I felt ok to go back to work immediately - for one of them I didn't take any time off as I didn't want to be sat at home just thinking about it. That was what was right for me but if you need more time then take it! And don't feel guilty about it.