Teen stepdaughter messaging older man (celeb)

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My step dd is 14. I’m younger than her dad so we are more like friends. Recently she had a sleepover at our house and it transpires her and her friends are messaging a much older actor (50s) I won’t name him as not relevant and he’s fine nothing wrong. They were quite open and showed me messages and replies (them flirty and he was appropriate in his replies). They have also made TikTok’s calling him a dilf etc. is this ok to just let them get on with it or do I need to tell her dad? She trusts me so I feel it could damage our relationship and no danger of anything happening as he is a celebrity and in another country!

If the account is verified then it will be legitimately affiliated with him but it’s very likely a member of staff monitoring the DM inbox and sending replies.

@AinsleyHayes it won't be! Trust me

I would message the celeb and tell him they are underage and as a parent while you appreciate he has behaved appropriately and wasn't aware you would appreciate it if he no longer engaged with them.

Husband messaged . He didn’t reply but it has been read. Hopefully the end of this now. Thank you to everyone for your advice.

The problem isn't the celeb she's messaging but that the messaging is in itself risky behaviour and she might end up messaging someone who IS dodgy. You need to tell her dad and let him and her mother deal with it.

She did, two months ago.

I'd tell her you are going to talk to her dad, I don't think this is the actor's real account, I think it's someone else.