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Is anyone else (finally!) emerging from their winter fog?

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LaChienneDesFromages · 07/02/2024 13:14

December and Christmas are a lovely time of year for me, full of socialising and celebrating. But the crash in January is always immense and I’m sure it’s getting worse each year. This year with the added bonuses of a colonoscopy, a very poorly mother-in-law and a whole family bout of flu. Work has been super busy, but I’ve had no energy to put into it. We have all been demotivated, lacking in energy and completely antisocial.

Finally, the snowdrops have popped up in our garden, and I had half an hour out there before work clearing some of last year‘s growth. There have been a few sunny-ish days, and I’ve had the energy to get back to swimming, walking and wanting to cook and wholesome food. I’m reading a fun and silly novel, and my son and I are actually going to try to get out for pizza and a film on Friday. Getting through the backlog of work reports that have built up feels almost doable.

I feel a cloud is finally lifting and I can get back to being myself again. Anyone else finally feeling that there are brighter days ahead? What are you most looking forward to getting back to doing?

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cloppyklip · 07/02/2024 13:19

Yes! This is me every single January and some of Feb depending on weather! The mornings are getting lighter and it's really helping me to get out of bed on time! I keep saying I am going to get one of those light lamps and I am definitely going to do it next year, as well as plan a break away in the sun!

Alicewinn · 07/02/2024 13:22

Yes, I've been fighting the winter blues this week. I don't know if it's blues or just a natural reaction to winter. Slower, feeling more internal and reflective, a little more delicate and sensitive. I just saw some daisy's on the communal lawn popping through and felt very happy.

GasPanic · 07/02/2024 13:24

The weather has been warmer over the past few days, but it will turn colder next week - back to winter.

The coldest week on average in the UK is in February, around Feb 13th :

https://www.theguardian.com/news/2012/dec/30/weatherwatch-records-temperature-cold

Weatherwatch: Statistically, February is the cruelest month

Paul Brown looks at temperature records in Britain over the past 130 years

https://www.theguardian.com/news/2012/dec/30/weatherwatch-records-temperature-cold

LaChienneDesFromages · 07/02/2024 13:25

I agree they feeling like this is probably a pretty natural reaction to winter.

Isn’t it amazing how different a little thing like flowers emerging can make you feel? Although my sister in Australia can bugger right off with her beach photos right now!

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OhNoWhatIf · 07/02/2024 13:25

This has been the first winter that I've struggled. I'm perimenopausel so that might be why. I got excited about Spring last night and ordered some new trainers as as much as I love boots I'm ready for a change. I also can't wait to get in the garden after work soon.

LaChienneDesFromages · 07/02/2024 13:29

GasPanic ugh! The cold always goes on for much longer than I remember. Often until April. But on 15th February we are piling in the car and driving to see BIL and his family in Switzerland. I love leaving the UK in cold and grey and getting to the Alps in cold and white + blue.

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RedChester · 07/02/2024 13:46

No I’m still deep into my winter funk but I did perk up earlier at the sight of an early daffodil

Mermaidsarereal · 07/02/2024 13:52

Yes I feel the same! I bought myself a gorgeous dress in January but felt it wasn't appropriate to wear yet because its too flowery and reminds me of summer. Yesterday, I thought sod it I'm wearing the dress with leggings and boots and immediately felt cheered up! I've got lots of exciting things booked for the summer and the rest of the year and just thinking of all the fun I'm going to have has gotten me through drab January!

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