So I appreciate that I'm really fortunate to have managed to find an NHS dentist - I've not been for about 6 years as I've been caring for my son and looking after me just hasn't been a priority. Anyway, I visited yesterday for a routine check and was disappointed to learn that I need a filling (first one so I've no idea what to expect when I go back tomorrow and am quite anxious about it). But the main reason I got my act together on going was because my teeth are quite stained (from tea drinking I think) and I was hoping to get them cleaned a bit. The dentist didn't do any sort of cleaning in the appointment - I thought he would at least do something to remove any build up of plaque etc? - but did say I could book with the hygienist. I find the experience of going to the dentist difficult anyway (though I don't think that shows, so they wouldn't be aware I'm anxious) but it wasn't helped by the fact the dentist didn't look at me when he was talking so I was never sure whether he was talking to me or the nurse, and he said things in quite a clipped way so I felt like I looked stupid if I asked him to clarify what he meant. There was definitely an assumption that I would just be able to afford whatever treatment they were saying I should have, which I sort of can, but with limited income as a carer I do need to figure out what I can justify spending on this.
Sorry this is a bit rambly! I have booked in to have the filling done as I presume that is pretty essential to be taken care of. But then at reception they were talking about an airflow treatment to remove staining (£100), or just a regular appointment with the hygienist (£60)(which it turns out will actually just be the same dentist wearing a different hat) and I felt so overwhelmed by being expected to make a decision on the spot without really any explanation of what was the best thing, and what would work best on the type of staining, so I didn't book in for either. But now I feel really flat about the whole thing because I'm going back tomorrow for a filling which I'm not very happy about because I don't know what to expect, and by the end of the week I'll still have stained teeth 😫
I don't really know why I'm posting! I guess to ask for any opinions on whether paying more for the airflow is worth it? Or should I just suck it up and accept my teeth are a bit stained and save my money? I don't spend a lot of time or money on looks, never have, so it feels a bit vain to be worrying about it. But my son does notice my teeth and comment on them so I think it might give me a bit of a lift to know they look better.