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What's this with men and shorts during winter?

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bakedpotatoforlunch · 03/02/2024 20:24

Light-hearted but genuine question. Why are there so many men wearing shorts in the depths of winter this year? Out and about I'm seeing several every day. Their legs must be freezing!

Is it a fashion thing at the moment? I mean shorts would be the last thing I'd want to wear right now. It just looks a bit daft to me. I'm truly mystified! 🤔

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sashh · 10/02/2024 00:29

OverTheCountryClub · 03/02/2024 20:37

I do think boys/ men run hotter. It's a standing joke that my dad is always in shorts (and he is!), even on the coldest, iciest day. DH is like a furnace - rarely cold. And now my sons are the same! Ds1 in particular never ever feels cold. The other day all the kids at the school gate were in coats, hats, gloves, scarves etc. I was battling to keep DS's coat done up, much less anything else, and to be fair when I touched his hands and cheeks he was warm! So it's either a male thing or a my family thing!

I'm the one that runs hot in my family. I'm not male.

The local postie wears shorts, he says he only feels the cold in his hands.

MrsAvocet · 10/02/2024 00:39

People obviously feel the cold differently. I was out walking last weekend when it was probably about 10c though there was a significant windchill. I was in thick leggings and a fleece with no coat and was plenty warm enough but saw some people in shorts and others dressed like they were on an Antarctic expedition.

Coolblur · 10/02/2024 00:43

I stand corrected (in my trousers!) I just don't generally see women where I live wearing shorts in winter.
I do like wearing shorts though, but the cold is too much for me. Hats off to you year-round lady shorts wearers!

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LWSnow · 10/02/2024 00:48

I think larger people don't feel the cold, a lot of the men I see in shorts are a bit on the husky side.

RedToothBrush · 10/02/2024 00:49

It's not a this year thing.

I know two blokes who did it all last year. Genuinely didn't feel the cold as when they were outside they were moving not standing still.

You are clearly behind the trend.

SheGotACamouflagedFace · 10/02/2024 00:50

Years of being forced to wear shorts year round at school and they are just used to it?(around here anyway - at most schools trousers only seem to be an option for the senior years of secondary school).

LizFromMotherland · 10/02/2024 00:53

Lots of men wearing shorts here in London and lots of women wearing short skirts/dresses.

What I really don't understand is men wearing shorts and big warm puffa jackets 😳🤣

EBearhug · 10/02/2024 00:57

I used to do it as a teen. When you're acclimatised to it, you don't notice the cold so much.

MonsteraMama · 10/02/2024 01:02

I don't know about other men, but my husband is from Northern Norway and says we have lovely mild winters here (I just checked my weather app and it's currently -34°C in the area he is from so he's not wrong). He's always cutting about in shorts and a t-shirt while I'm bundled up in my big fleeces. My daughter has taken after him, was swanning about in gym shorts and a tee in the snow the other day while I was miserable in my thermals. Madness.

cardiffcatarrhalchoices · 10/02/2024 05:39

SheGotACamouflagedFace · 10/02/2024 00:50

Years of being forced to wear shorts year round at school and they are just used to it?(around here anyway - at most schools trousers only seem to be an option for the senior years of secondary school).

No, seriously exactly what it's not. I grew up never knowing, that the shorts school uniforms thing existed, because in South Wales it did not. My mother also thought that any question of it had ended when the mid-century boys' breeches era ended. The cruelty includes that you can know they exist and would have suited you and you did not get them !! and before the web you could discover that only when grown up after being completely oblivious to it all your childhood. That's why I never asked to go to a school with that uniform, in all innocence I couldn't because my wildest dreams never had cause to imagine they existed.

I, a devoted year rounder for over 30 years with deep identity feelings about it and success in getting it recognised as an autistic need in my work (gardener). I was from age 8 1/2 a victim of a reckless ill-resourced short-lived right wing private school militantly in favour of advance streaming for giftedness, it was full of future promises but got consistently bad results as it was fearsomely shouty and bad tempered and fanatical for homework, and that does not work. It ended up in the abuse of giving me a terrifying pressure breakdown at 14, and blew its propaganda by it so that I have the satisfaction of knowing I was a key cause of its discredited decline to closure. So that was its nature, and it's businesslike gloom included that it did not allow shorts at all above the first primary year after infants class, which on average steaming was age 8
.
At least as it allowed girls thick tights it was not encouraging blatant gender difference over legs but was completely anti legs. We were not allowed to go home in PE kit, even though PE was at a bussed-to site 2 miles from school, there were no showers there, and changing us could hold up bussing us back to connect with the main school buses and hold up everyone. If there had not been the too hasty rejection if cub scouts for my dislike of football, I could have been awake to my shorts identity in time to stop me ever believing in it agreeing to go to that catastrophic school.

Think how lifelong traumatic it is to learn about experiences it is to learn about experiences of the shorts uniforms, shocking not to have been stopped as cruelty but that would have been nice and right for me, while I instead got this.

Learn too from how we have all been left to perceived our own completely different bubbles and think they are the national picture. TV current affairs never points out their existence, as if too incredible, even when it debates uniform, this failed to inform me of them in my oblivious childhood. For learning's sake I really wish to know where SheGotACamouflagedFace's experience is located. It's the second post I've seen on here recently saying that. Yet other posts on the subject, in various places, include: "I've never heard of a school not allowing trousers before". "Didn't think they still existed " "I am horrified to discover that this cruel and poncy tradition still exists". "It's not that usual nowadays " ! In Edinburgh where I live now, the posh private schools make it prominent around town but certainly not the dominant culture re state schools, and adults react to my shorts quite as if the private schools don't exist around them in plain sight. In childhood we never learned of them from a mum's schoolfriend family in coastal Dorset, so it seems as absent there as in South Wales.

cardiffcatarrhalchoices · 10/02/2024 05:53

And all this perception that men want to do it more than women, I've seen that on other sites too and a suggestion we have hotter metabolisms ! Yet it's men who have been less allowed to do it in traditional office dress where women could choose more airy dresses, and the long history of high school not allowing boys leg comfort choices but allowing girls ! And the bullying culture that went with that, that helped to keep shorts suppressed even where they were allowed, and episode 2/6 of Blackadder siding with and taking part in that without any condemning. No sign all through those years of men all wanting to do it. So something sociological has clearly changed in our awareness we safely can.

StarlightLady · 10/02/2024 05:58

I think it’s bonkers. Having said that, there are plenty of girls out with short skirts/dresses and bare legs on a Saturday night.

Bedazzling · 10/02/2024 09:59

@Coolblur I do run very hot, I don’t sweat at all and have now discovered I have dry ear wax. I spoke to a Dr years ago about not sweating as I do get very hot. There is a gene variant that people have that means they never have smelly armpits. This is me even though I used to do loads of sports. They are linked apparently. DS also doesn’t sweat and has dry ear wax.

Here is an article. https://www.theguardian.com/science/sifting-the-evidence/2013/feb/14/wasting-money-deodorant-ears though British I am of Chinese descent.

Are you wasting money on deodorant? The answer can be found in your ears | Suzi Gage

Suzi Gage: There really is 'a gene for sweaty armpits', but new research suggests that the lucky people who don't have smelly sweat still use expensive deodorants

https://www.theguardian.com/science/sifting-the-evidence/2013/feb/14/wasting-money-deodorant-ears

mydogisthebest · 11/02/2024 11:32

What I think looks ridiculous is all the men in shorts but also wearing thick jumpers or jackets and, most of the time, a hat!

You either feel the cold or you don't so why one half of you dressed for summer and the other for winter?

UnctuousUnicorns · 11/02/2024 11:37

Not your legs, not your business. 🤷‍♀️

cardiffcatarrhalchoices · 11/02/2024 13:47

mydogisthebest · 11/02/2024 11:32

What I think looks ridiculous is all the men in shorts but also wearing thick jumpers or jackets and, most of the time, a hat!

You either feel the cold or you don't so why one half of you dressed for summer and the other for winter?

That I can explain very easily and rationally. The aversion to overheating is in the leg muscles and the knee being an active joint made mostly of bone. Lots of energy of movement in them. It's particular to their nature, it does not oblige my differently composed upper body to feel the same. Top half is my heat core, and keeping it cosy warm exactly powers heat outwards to keep the legs going.

@SheGotACamouflagedFace is it okay to have any indication as to the region where your description of schools holds ? Knowing it's not any of the regions my posts have mentioned.

Kittybackdwill · 02/02/2025 20:52

It goes without saying men can wear what they like, but would I consider a man who wore shorts in all weathers a possible beau, as my granddaughters would say, "no way". 😅😂🤣

Kittybackdwill · 02/02/2025 20:54

It goes without saying men can wear what they like, but would I consider a man who wore shorts all year round as a possible beau, as my granddaughters would say "No way". 😅😂🤣

greengreyblue · 02/02/2025 20:56

Ivee noticed that they tend to be overweight men so I’m wondering if it well insulated thing as in more padding or is it that trousers are uncomfortable if you have chubby legs.

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