I think it's an awful statistic, if true, but I'm always slightly wary of who commissioned the survey and the aspect of self reporting is also a bit off.
Often people tend to report their version of reality, and can leave out personal choices.
What do we expect? We are in some ways a highly materialistic and individualistic society where consumerism is indoctrinated upon us from even before we are born, but in others we offer so much help, that you would struggle to see in less wealthy nations.
We want more things than other countries do and if we don't have certain things we commiserate ourselves, thinking that we are poor but individual priorities are often lacking, and many families prioritise material objects and entertainment before food, warmth and education.
These are some of the things that are the norm in another EU country, which obviously is far from perfect and I am not suggesting superior in any way.
•live in an apartment
•live with extended family
•not have a garden
• never move house
•never change kitchen/bathroom etc even after 50+years.
•never have take away
•children don't have double beds or necessarily their own bedrooms.
•never have gender reveal parties, baby showers, or elaborate children's parties with entertainment or expensive party bags or things like wasting birthday cakes.
•Pay for our children's school books.
•Pay to eat non processed food.
•Pay for certain medical procedures.
I love the Uk but I feel that people are made to feel dissatisfied with their lot much more than in relatively poorer countries because that's what you get conditioned to feel, and it takes effort to fight it. It feels like there are so many more things available and you are supposed to have certain things and if you don't then it's awful.
I don't think that people see the invisible wealth the Uk offers, those services that it provides for free that other countries don't have. The NHS, education system, citizen's advice, public libraries, baby groups, voluntary organisations, the list is endless.
Families where I am on the continent pay just under €5 per child per school meal. Could you imagine, people would be up in arms in the UK. Many children come home to eat and return to school, but the majority don't. They accept that it costs money and that it's something a family should provide, before anything else, alongside housing and good health.
Do things that are a given become invisible? Do we not see their worth? If childcare became "free" and accessible to all, how do you think that people would use the money they would have otherwise paid out on it? Would they suddenly have thousands more in the bank? I've a feeling that it would get swallowed up within a year and people would be back to square one, spending every penny they have, even before they have it, because that's how we've been trained!