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As a female how good are you at DIY?

196 replies

chickenriceorspud · 28/01/2024 20:23

I'm very impressed at all these fabulous woman that can do their own DIY. I need to learn more.

How handy are you?

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BasiliskStare · 28/01/2024 21:48

I can do painting - I am rather proud of my cutting in - I can put together flat pack furniture if not too heavy , but I won't touch electrics , that's a "proper job" in our house even though DH thinks he can do it. I cannot forget DF putting up a picture for DM and he drilled through a cable - not interested.

ButteryBiscuitBaseBiscuitBase · 28/01/2024 21:49

I can put flat pack together but that's it. I'm crap with anything else. I'm afraid of the drill!

chickenriceorspud · 28/01/2024 21:49

LadyGaGasPokerFace · 28/01/2024 20:36

Depends what you mean by good with DIY?
I can paint, sand, poly filler, use a screwdriver, drill, I can hang wallpaper, change a plug, use caulk.

That's impressive to me. I think I've held a box of screws, that's been it lol

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countvoncount · 28/01/2024 21:57

I love it, find it empowering
Grew up with a single mum, we didn't need a man for anything!
Flat pack genuinely makes me happy!

megletthesecond · 28/01/2024 22:04

Unless. My late dad was excellent at everything and just did it for me.
I've never had time to learn how to do it since I've been a lone parent. I just pay a handyman every year or so.

AffIt · 28/01/2024 22:08

Above average: I can do all basic DIY / car maintenance stuff and some intermediate stuff - so refitting a tap, small areas of plastering etc.

I couldn't install a set of stairs or retile a roof right now, but in saying that, there's probably something on YouTube.

Auntieobem · 28/01/2024 22:08

I'm better at flat packs than DP who refuses to follow in instructions. If there's a video for something on you tube I can follow it, so can replace heating elements on electric ovens.... Terrified of plumbing though.

SallyWD · 28/01/2024 22:10

I'm useless! But so is DH.

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 28/01/2024 22:17

I can do basic stuff. (Never ever gas). Had to learn out of financial necessity. There were lots of ‘year of gaffer tape’ and the memorable ‘year of cable ties’ type cock-ups/learning curves along the way.
Definitely research what you wan to do - very easy these days to do, measure twice if not three times and buy the right stuff first time. …‘ year of plumbers tape’

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 28/01/2024 22:18

I do think it’s a shame that adult education classes no longer run for basic diy skills. They were fabulous.

StopTheBusINeedAWeeWeeAWeeWeeBagOChips · 28/01/2024 22:23

I was very good, laying floors, decorating, put up a wall and made a doorway to split a room in my house, built a shed, plasterboarded many a room, changed light fittings etc (single parent and poor so learned everything). I have a disability now which means I can't do much, but my 15yo dd has taken over and is really handy now so she's my go to person. She has just totally redecorated her room and laid a carpet.

Baldieheid · 28/01/2024 22:27

How good at DIY am i? Pretty good actually.

I've replaced our shower, bar the electric stuff which I decided a professional ought to do. I've replaced all the drainage pipes under our kitchen sink. Fitted new loo seats. Decorated our house. Removed a tiny dishwasher and built a new cupboard instead of it.

I don't touch the car except for tyre pressure, screen wash and fuel.

flippert · 28/01/2024 22:28

I'm rubbish because I don't want to do it. Just hate stuff like that. And it's not for lack of experience as I was forced into a lot of that sort of stuff when parents renovating houses when younger. Maybe why I hate it so much.
My mum is great at DIY so I have a good person to learn from too but also means I have someone to do it for me, as well as husband. I know I should really learn!!

DuesToTheDirt · 28/01/2024 22:28

I'm a fabulous painter, and I can tile, but I'm rubbish with a hammer or a saw, though years ago I did a load of moulding with a mitre saw. I'm not great with power tools to be honest, though I do the hedge-trimming I suppose. I can put up wallpaper, but really I think it's a two-person job anyway.

mathanxiety · 28/01/2024 22:30

Ginmonkeyagain · 28/01/2024 20:41

I can sand, paint and fill - wood and plaster.

I can grout tiles and seal wet areas (baths, sinks etc..).

I can do basic drilling (rehanging cupboard doors etc..) and minor repairs.

I can unblock a drain and bleed radiators.

I leave anything gas, water or electricity related to professionals.

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Me too for this list.
I've also laid tiles and repaired large holes in drywall, and cleared gutters of leaves (and a dead squirrel on one occasion).

Starseeking · 28/01/2024 22:32

I'm good at basic DIY because I have to be as I am a single parent. Even when I was with 6'4", 20 stone EXDP I had to do all the DIY as he was completely useless (in many ways!).

Mumaway · 28/01/2024 22:32

I am fucking awesome. I want to get better at plastering but the local college only does daytime courses.
Collins DIY manual is an amazing place to start, just have a go. Borrow decent tools until you are confident you need your own. I have now singlehandedly renovated 4 houses too to bottom, and built garden room from scratch.

Resilience · 28/01/2024 22:36

I'm good at DIY and can do most things. I've even fitted a kitchen. As I've got older I find I have less strength though so increasingly make it someone else's problem as my time is more valuable to me.

While it is absolutely true that sex makes no difference to how good you are at this stuff (some exceptions notwithstanding), I'm not dismissive of anyone who is impressed by women who can do DIY. Truth is that we still live in a world where women and girl's just aren't as exposed to or encouraged to do DIY.

I am self taught out of necessity (couldn't afford to get someone to do it for me), first using books and manuals and more recently YouTube. Go for it!

Notthatcatagain · 28/01/2024 22:40

Over the years I've learned to do all the basic painting and decorating type jobs, lay tiles, fit a pane of glass, built raised beds in the garden, I build a fine flat pack. Have upcycled old furniture too, that's very satisfying. I can fix pretty much anything that needs superglue or a needle. Grow fruit and veggies as well as flowers, make jam and chutney with any surplus I also taught DH so he's not bad either. We are getting on now and both have arthritis in our hands. Bought a new piece of furniture recently, paid an extra £39 to have it built and £40 to have the old one taken away, nearly broke our hearts. We called it our old farts tax

donotsubscribe · 28/01/2024 22:41

I'm no expert but have done the following before ...

Tiled kitchen/bathroom splash backs
Put together flat pack furniture
Built an ornamental wall
Tiled a cloakroom floor
Wallpapered
Put blinds/shelves up
Painted
Laid a click together laminate floor.

I should say I didn't do any of these perfectly, but it was all passable. I haven't done anything beyond painting for a few years now, I expect I'd be able to do a better job now after watching YouTube videos.

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 28/01/2024 22:42

@Notthatcatagain our old farts tax is getting a roofer to fix two broken roof tiles and remove an aerial. Basically if it’s up there we will pay. You aren’t alone!

YourGoatAteMyFishfinger · 28/01/2024 22:48

Pretty rubbish. I can paint, but no finesse. I can strip wood and garden.

My 72 year old DM on the other hand is brilliant.
She hangs wallpaper, Drills things, puts up shelves, has laid carpet, laid laminate, paints, changed light fittings. I think the only thing she doesn’t attempt is plumbing.

BasiliskStare · 28/01/2024 22:49

@Mumaway Plastering I think is real skill which has to be learned . Well also electrical stuff and plumbing.

I had a great great uncle who was known as "Sparky" . He lost a leg in the military and had a metal one. People were always fearful of him as he was an electrician by trade. 😂 This is many decades ago.

caringcarer · 28/01/2024 22:54

I can paint gloss and emulsion, tile and grout walls and floors, plaster a rough coat but always get a professional to do the final coat, little jobs like filling, culking and wall papering provided a basic pattern. DH can fit a kitchen, including using a jig to cut work surfaces, put in a new floor joist, lay a new floor both laminate and wood, tile a floor or walls, paint gloss and emulsion, fit shelves and TV brackets, and also do basic plumbing and put in new electrical sockets. We always get experts for gas and complex electrics. DH and I renovate houses together. We both have our areas of specialism.

comeagainx · 28/01/2024 22:54

Yes. These days it's really easy because you can watch two or three youtube videos by real experts that tell you not just what to do but give you expert tips including best tools to buy.

If anyone is ever tiling and applying silicone - highly recommend this chap - his siliconing advice is brilliant. I hope he gets lots of commission from people who buy the Cramer profiling kit because it is a fanastic tool and makes it really easy. I bought one on the back of this video but I'd never have known it existed if it werent for him.

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