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Bastarding Facebook marketplace

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KarenNotAKaren · 24/01/2024 19:29

Just moved to a new house with a second reception room which we have used as a dining room. But given we don’t spend that much of the day eating, and it’s very spacey, I’m turning into a dining room-come-reading corner for me. I’ve put my bookshelf in there, ordered a mini fridge and tall reading lamp and now all I need is a sofa.

Because even bland sofas these days cost almost the same as my mum’s first house did - and the wait to get the bloody thing is around 6 weeks (which from experience turns into 8-9 weeks) - I thought I’d be environmentally conscious as well as thrifty and buy second hand.

Local second hand furniture shops are no good - the nansecond they get a sofa in someone else with more sore time to shop than me snags it. I swear people camp outside these shops to get first dibs on anything that doesn’t look like it came from the 1970’s.

So I went on FB marketplace. I search for sofas within a 10km radius of my postcode.

Every single sofa looks lovely, is priced reasonable from £50-£150 and then when I enquire it turns out it was a falsely advertised price and some sort of sofa loan shark is touting their wares on Facebook. They seem to be operating in a group of about 500 others, and it’s impossible to spot if someone is actually selling a second hand sofa or is wanting £600 “cash on delivery” for a sofa that probably ‘fell off the back of a van’. It’s only when they reply to my initial enquiry with lots of emojis and BIG CAPITAL LETTER WORDS ABOUT HOW THIS SOFA WILL CHANGE MY LIFE that I realise it’s not a £50 sofa after all.

It’s really pissing me off, I just want a 2 seater or a love seat so I can hide from the bastards wonderful people I live with to read in peace on an evening. Why is it so hard to find something to sit on!

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Jonnycakes · 24/01/2024 19:36

It works the other way too. I’m trying to sell a spin bike and get nothing but people trying to scam me by saying a courier will bring me the cash when they collect my item. All I have to do is pay the insurance 🙄. Fb just seems to be full of scammers at the moment. Have you tried your local selling pages instead of fb marketplace? We also have some local charity shops who just sell furniture, might be worth seeing what’s available in your area. Good luck, hope you find the perfect reading seat.

Snowdropsareontheirway · 24/01/2024 19:37

Try IKEA.

KarenNotAKaren · 24/01/2024 19:38

Jonnycakes · 24/01/2024 19:36

It works the other way too. I’m trying to sell a spin bike and get nothing but people trying to scam me by saying a courier will bring me the cash when they collect my item. All I have to do is pay the insurance 🙄. Fb just seems to be full of scammers at the moment. Have you tried your local selling pages instead of fb marketplace? We also have some local charity shops who just sell furniture, might be worth seeing what’s available in your area. Good luck, hope you find the perfect reading seat.

Oh yes I’ve had that one! I have fun playing with them though and always give them silly addresses until they clock on.

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IsGoodIsDon · 24/01/2024 19:41

Facebook marketplace has turned into one big scam. I’ve been trying to sell our buggy but just about every reply is the scam about a courier and insurance that they will then refund.

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 24/01/2024 19:42

Cut your stress to zero and wander into some charity shops. At least you can sit in them and they are normally in good condition. Lots of lovely chairs and sofas and the deliver! (Delivery is usually extra £10-£15). Very nice people. and good causes.

Anon0981 · 24/01/2024 19:42

🤣

StroppyTop · 24/01/2024 19:47

Yep, had the same experience recently with FB and sofas.

Try eBay and Gumtree.

Octavia64 · 24/01/2024 19:48

Look at IKEA some sofas can be delivered really quickly.

Greenleaf2 · 24/01/2024 19:51

KarenNotAKaren · 24/01/2024 19:29

Just moved to a new house with a second reception room which we have used as a dining room. But given we don’t spend that much of the day eating, and it’s very spacey, I’m turning into a dining room-come-reading corner for me. I’ve put my bookshelf in there, ordered a mini fridge and tall reading lamp and now all I need is a sofa.

Because even bland sofas these days cost almost the same as my mum’s first house did - and the wait to get the bloody thing is around 6 weeks (which from experience turns into 8-9 weeks) - I thought I’d be environmentally conscious as well as thrifty and buy second hand.

Local second hand furniture shops are no good - the nansecond they get a sofa in someone else with more sore time to shop than me snags it. I swear people camp outside these shops to get first dibs on anything that doesn’t look like it came from the 1970’s.

So I went on FB marketplace. I search for sofas within a 10km radius of my postcode.

Every single sofa looks lovely, is priced reasonable from £50-£150 and then when I enquire it turns out it was a falsely advertised price and some sort of sofa loan shark is touting their wares on Facebook. They seem to be operating in a group of about 500 others, and it’s impossible to spot if someone is actually selling a second hand sofa or is wanting £600 “cash on delivery” for a sofa that probably ‘fell off the back of a van’. It’s only when they reply to my initial enquiry with lots of emojis and BIG CAPITAL LETTER WORDS ABOUT HOW THIS SOFA WILL CHANGE MY LIFE that I realise it’s not a £50 sofa after all.

It’s really pissing me off, I just want a 2 seater or a love seat so I can hide from the bastards wonderful people I live with to read in peace on an evening. Why is it so hard to find something to sit on!

I have the opposite problem to you. I have a lovely sofa to sell I basically can't seem to give away on FB marketplace or eBay Do please DM me if you're anywhere near London Smile

poopoolala · 24/01/2024 19:51

There is a furniture charity shop near me which had brand new blue velvet sofas in the other day . They deliver too! I'm going back after I move and hope they are still there !

MogHog · 24/01/2024 20:00

I hate this too. I've found that changing the filter so it only searches for used-like new or used-good often helps get rid of a lot the spam posts

ithinkicanithinkican · 24/01/2024 20:05

Most of the car ads are fake too, it's a total waste of time.

zurala · 24/01/2024 20:07

I couldn't even give a sofa away on Facebook, so I listed it on eBay for a tenner and it sold almost immediately. Look on eBay.

cristokitty · 24/01/2024 20:15

It is just as bad the other way. We debated selling our corner sofa (it was 3 years old but we moved and have the wrong shaped lounge for it). The problem is that we smoke so we advertised it as free and warned people it was from a smoking household. I know that a non-smoker would have struggled with the faintest whiff . The only responses we had were from scammers who wanted to send a courier at cost or people who wanted it delivered. The tip is 3 mins down the road but it was too big for the car. We ended up organising a bulky waste collection from the council and someone knocked on the door at 8am asking if they could take it (more polite than the scrap man who took the metal bits at 6am without saying a word).

Pigeon851 · 24/01/2024 20:18

Totally agree, really annoying. I wanted to buy a second hand sofa because all my nice stuff has been wrecked by my cats and kids. I hate having to trawl through all.those dodgy warehouse sale type listings. In the end I did find a really nice one on Gumtree which is still going strong (and weirdly untouched by the cats who clearly have more expensive tastes). It's worth searching outside of FB.

Datdamndamp · 24/01/2024 20:26

I was going to suggest Gumtree. I got a lovely sofa bed for £20.

IWillBeWaxingAnOwl · 24/01/2024 20:27

Id recommend posting directly on your local area Facebook page "is anyone selling x?" - far less scammers!

MothralovesGojira · 24/01/2024 20:46

I would recommend seeing how close you are to a British Heart Foundation Furniture & Electrical Home store. Prices are very reasonable and they deliver.
Failing that try Ikea - they have some nice 2 seaters for fairly low prices. We ordered two sofas from there in November and had delivery within a week!

throughgrittedteeth · 24/01/2024 20:49

We have this with loads of stuff in our area. How I got around this OP is to select "used - like new" or "used - good" if filters most of the crap out.

JanetareyouokareyouokJanet · 24/01/2024 20:56

EBay has been good for sofas in the past.

RestingCatsArseFace · 24/01/2024 21:31

I bought a large sofa and chair on Ebay, seller delivered it as they had a van. Moved house and needed a smaller one, put it back on Ebay and sold it for 99p which was easier than trying to give it away.

Bought replacements - from Ebay, seller had a van and delivered. Gave one away to a friend who's partner had left with the furniture and still have the other one.

Try Ebay, you won't need to assemble it unless you want one that comes in bits.

KindleGirlie · 25/01/2024 02:29

Beds are the same on marketplace. So frustrating

PieAndLattes · 25/01/2024 04:04

Try Argos. Not the first place I’d have thought of for a sofa, but I got two velvet chesterfields and were comfortable and very well priced - and they look fantastic.

Anon0981 · 25/01/2024 09:50

Cheap n cheerful until u can get your dream sofa? Hope u get sorted.

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