Hi I am wondering why when someone dilates 4-10cm in 20 min would doctors suggest a ventouse and epist . I was very distressed asking for epidural repeatedly and there were some heart decelerations in the 60s. They didn’t even to tell me to pause when head came out and I had 2nd degree tear as well. One midwife said they had to get baby out quicker as I was too “distressed” —-
they didn’t let me go in the water either saying someone was using the pool but this may have been a lie as I have 2 prior sections . Plus with continuous monitoring they’re always checking the screens.
they didn’t ask my permission for the epistio am I able to complain?
i lost 1.2L blood which is ridiculous for a natural birth
im curious if there was a medical reason for doing this to me or was just to make the labour quicker so I would stop shouting
one midwife even said “there’s no need for screaming “
how do some women not tear and go home hours after the birth and I had to stay 3 nights feeling weak and fainting ?