I've been unwell today with a migraine, woke about 6 am with it already quite bad I took my meds which usually work but today they just were not getting into my system. I vomited about lunch time, took more tablets and finally about 2pm I finally fell asleep for about an hour.
When I got up at 3pm I did a few household tasks hung up a washing etc and made some tea and toast for myself, I did offer DH but he refused the toast. I work from home so told DH also working from home today that I needed to catch up with my work for a few hours but that when he was done he could start the dinner. I had made a lamb hotpot last night and all he had to do was make some mash to go with it.
DH had already been up to tell me earlier in the day that he was not feeling well, that he had taken a lemsip. After he finished work he came up and said he wanted to have a shower to see if that made him feel better, fair enough. When he came out he went into the kitchen I assumed to start dinner after about 45 minutes and feeling really quite hungry I went down to see how he was getting on and found him on the couch with a blanket over him. He'd made himself tea and toast! I told him it was rude of him to make food just for himself without offering me, that i was hungry too and I'd been expecting him to head the hotpot and do the mash by now. He then said if I'd been hungry I should have come down and made it myself!
I was pretty pissed with him by this point and went to make the dinner, he came in and ate it then helped wash up before going back to the sofa and his blanket because he was feeling unwell. I checked his temperature which was fine and I asked him how he felt, his response was that his nose felt a bit dry!
He's on the sofa now waiting for his cup of tea while I am finishing tidying up (and typing this). I mean perhaps he is ill and coming down with something but it doesn't matter what it is if I am ill he says he is sick too including when I've had gynaecological surgery! He was great in many ways and looked after me but he acted like an invalid himself.
I am sure people will say he's faking being sick to get out of doing stuff for me but I don't think that is what is in his mind, I think he probably does imagine he feels unwell I just don't get why?