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Police visit

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2024i · 16/01/2024 23:59

Just wanted to discuss this with someone really as I don’t know what to make of it!

earlier today someone knocked my door whilst I was WFH and in a teams meeting. I muted my mic, opened the door, expecting a parcel. Only for 2 police officers to be outside!

They asked if anyone else was in the property and asked to come in and look around. When inside they were asking loads of questions. Eg for my name, how long have I owned my home, if anyone else is associated with the address, previous owner’s contact details. They then asked if I knew this woman, and showed me a mugshot image of her, and then showed me an email on their phone which had my address. I had no clue and they were apologetic and said they may have wrong address and then wanted to know about the neighbours or any strange incidents. Meanwhile the bloody teams call I was in is still ongoing, luckily my mic was muted but my camera was still on!

I can’t remember many other specifics but still feel a bit taken aback. I wonder how the police got my address associated with this random woman, and if I need to worry about anything eg her showing up or people giving out my address for wrongdoing

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Waitingfordoggo · 17/01/2024 15:48

As for those posters calling people ‘paranoid’- thanks very much for the gaslighting but no, reasonable caution based on evidence is not paranoia.

Ladyj84 · 17/01/2024 15:59

Well I wouldn't have a problem then coming in. There doing a job. They once went to my parents by accident years ago just a mistaken door number as there were 2 number 4 houses next to each other but one was the same street name but with avenue in it. They apologised and went to the right one

superplumb · 17/01/2024 16:18

Coyoacan · 17/01/2024 01:46

I hope you asked them to identify themselves. And I understood that police need a warrant to enter your home without an invitation but I'm not up to date on UK law

No they don't. They can enter a property without warrant under a number of sections of law, s4 Road traffic act, s17 pace, s18 pace, s32 pace.

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superplumb · 17/01/2024 16:20

I'm an officer btw. Ideally they should have provided you with information as to their presence. They are looking for someone I'd assume and it may be that this person gave your, or another address and the police are looking for her or more info, or it could be a welfare check on a missing person. Always check for ID if they are plain clothed and you can call 101 to check their shoulder number if concerned.

DyslexicPoster · 17/01/2024 16:24

I'm suspicious of police because of things that happen in the met police mostly. Some of it was harmful some is utter incompetence. Until your involved in serious crime as a victim you might presume the police will help you. You'd be surprised and shocked unfortunately. There's also levels of incompetence that are so bad they cause real harm.

One tiny example. Giving evidence in my friends rape case..I had to do it in the police reception. Female officer said to me "why did your friend go back to his house?" Well sherlock, he wasn't wearing a tshirt saying "rapist"

2024i · 17/01/2024 19:25

Tighginn · 17/01/2024 14:34

Christmas tree up on the 16th?!? No doubt there was thread about you where the 101 mafia where out in force.😂

Haha in my defence I went on holiday recently and have been travelling for work, the tree is on my admin pile to sort alongside emptying suitcases and doing laundry 😂

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CeeCeeBloom · 17/01/2024 19:38

User542452 · 17/01/2024 13:10

So many paranoid people. Why wouldn't y you want to help police with their enquiries? If the OP had refused to let them in they may have thought that the person they're looking for was there, but by letting them in she showed that it's her flat and no one else was there.

People from poor/WC backgrounds tend to have this attitude because it trickles through from friends, relatives, hearsay etc. It's basically basking in the smugness of knowing a tidbit of info (usually false) that makes you secretly smarter than others. Especially as it relates to a social heirarchy, it's a kind of "fuck the system" attitude that make them feel less oppressed. Goes along with mistrust the government, belief in conspiracies, always assuming the worst of authority figures etc.

WC families teach their children that authority figures are the enemy and will punish them if they slip up. So any contact with authority (policemen, doctors, judges, social workers) are treated with suspicion. In reality, the best way to get out of a situation like this is to cooperate to the fullest extent IF you are 100% certain that you've done nothing wrong. If anything, make some banter or ask casual questions in order to build a rapport with the people who may have temporary authority over you. The human, emotional element is absolutely crucial in getting out of tricky situations.

WTAF?

Yes us WC underlings just have low IQs and are a part of the great unwashed, aren't we? Fucking hell! Must be nice to live in mansions and having slaves wiping your arse for you, really fuels your delusions of grandeur.

GrowAndGreen · 17/01/2024 19:41

If you don't own capital you are working class and in case you missed it the police are there to protect capital, not people. The reason teh working class don't trust the police isn't paranoia it's experience. Look at what they did in the 70's to the miners.

And in case you missed it - we're edging further and further into a police state thanks to our leaders

2024i · 17/01/2024 20:12

I see my thread unexpectedly triggered a side conversation about class! I’m not sure what class I would fall under tbh - probably emerging middle class as my grandparents were doctors from a working class background. I couldn’t imagine them being naturally suspicious of “authority” because of that though.

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Andherewegoagain24 · 18/01/2024 06:14

GrowAndGreen · 17/01/2024 19:41

If you don't own capital you are working class and in case you missed it the police are there to protect capital, not people. The reason teh working class don't trust the police isn't paranoia it's experience. Look at what they did in the 70's to the miners.

And in case you missed it - we're edging further and further into a police state thanks to our leaders

That was half a century ago.

Blueberry911 · 18/01/2024 06:39

ronoi · 17/01/2024 10:42

I wouldn't let them in, not to antagonise them but becsue I would be utterly terrified. It's invasive, I am fearful of the police after being brutally interviewed many years ago when they were trying to nail my ex (ex at the time) for a serious offence.

I'm autistic, I'm vulnerable and I'm fucking scared of everything as it is due to cPTSD.

I realise many would invite them in and offer them tea, but for me, please stay out of my house.

Yes but the OP isn't you.

user63737383882 · 18/01/2024 06:45

I have had this before apart from they knocked at 4am in the morning, turns out they were looking for someone who had previously lived at the house. No idea what they had done! If it's an apartment block could it be they don't know what apartment and so are knocking on each one to try and work it out?

FloorWipes · 18/01/2024 07:35

I had something similar happen a few years ago. Opened the door to the police. They were looking for let's say Jenny Jones. I told them that I had bought the house from Jenny Jones but not seen her since the house viewing. They asked me a lot of questions about her and I answered as best as I could based on the limited chat I'd had with her during the house viewing. They also asked me to describe her. I said I'm pretty sure I could find her on LinkedIn and you could see a photo? They said yes please. Got my phone and located her. Showed them. I think they mumbled that it didn't seem like their Jenny Jones and off they went. I did continue to receive all of Jenny Jones' important post from the DVLA, HMRC and Companies House for months which I thought was odd. It's also a bit odd that our urban townhouse has a gun locker.

Copperoliverbear · 18/01/2024 08:14

I'd just go to my local police station and ask for more information and say you are worried. X

nowthelighthasgone · 18/01/2024 08:17

bobomomo · 17/01/2024 13:38

Refusing to talk to the police makes you seem guilty, insisting on a solicitor makes you seem guilty .... you get my drift. The op did everything right, I doubt they will return

Sorry but this is ridiculous of course it doesn't

BudgetFoodie · 18/01/2024 08:20

It's probably an error that they ended up at your address but I would be considering identity theft as a possible scenario too.
Have you checked your credit file recently?
lost any documents?

cerisepanther73 · 18/01/2024 08:20

@2024i

I once had two CI police officers turn up at my place enquiring about if i knew about the identity of illegal imigrant there were looking out ..

My house that i rent was a house that lots of people have passed through in over the years

Huge pile of letters when i first moved in

cerisepanther73 · 18/01/2024 08:21

Typo mistake CID officers *

ronoi · 18/01/2024 09:03

@Blueberry911

Yes but the OP isn't you.

Neither is OP several other people who have also commented how they would have handled the situation.

StarlightLime · 18/01/2024 09:10

Tighginn · 17/01/2024 03:02

Never welcome police into your home. Never say a word to a police officer without a solicitor present. God only knows what lies they will have recorded about their visit.

Ffs 🙄
Paranoid nonsense.

Cinateel · 18/01/2024 09:26

Some ridiculous answers on here. It does flag up the possibility of identity theft. Even if it isn't in this case, make sure you are careful about shredding anything with your name and address on.

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