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The Newborn Stage - When did it get better for you? Struggling!

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user2233 · 14/01/2024 23:39

Hi,

I'm a FTM to a beautiful 6 week old baby. I adore my little girl but I've found the transition into motherhood to be extremely difficult. I've had previous experience looking after kids/babies, however, my pregnancy wasn't easy, I was supposed to be induced due to complications and at 37 weeks she arrived into the world via c-section.

I noticed that she was always quite unsettled. I'm aware of the forth trimester and that newborns can be quite clingy due to the comfort they seek within their mothers, however, my baby would cry hysterically for hours. Fast forward to a few days ago, I've found out that she probably has a Cow's Milk Protein allergy and that explains a lot of her symptoms and fussiness.

I've started her on the new prescribed formula, but I just feel so sleep deprived (as she would not settle in between feeds either on the old formula). I can cope with waking up every two hours but I wouldn't get any sleep because that's 'two hour sleep' that I was meant to have was spent trying to console her. When she'd finally calm down it would be about 20 mins before she'd need to be fed again.

Anyways, I'd just like to know when it gets a little easier? When do you start getting used to the above and if anyone has any tips for the newborn stage?

TIA.

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minipie · 14/01/2024 23:59

Oh I feel for you OP. I found the newborn stage enormously difficult with DD being premature and various sleep and feeding issues and health worries. It got a lot better for us around 14/15 weeks. And then better again around 6 months. I know that probably seems years away right now. For some people they see a turning point earlier (and of course some have easy newborns 🙄)

My advice is just survive day to day. Rope in whatever help you can and don’t feel you or your baby “ought” to be doing xyz, all babies are different. It’s ok if you’re not enjoying it. It will get better.

Queijo · 15/01/2024 11:02

I feel you, Dd was a horror for sleep when she was tiny. I nearly lost my mind, I used to hallucinate I was so tired. Bit unnerving!

I found by around 3 months it settled a bit, then the 4 month sleep regression kicked in and it was back to square 1. But after that from around 6 months it was easier to settle her and keep her settled.

Shes 7 now and it all seems like such a long time ago, but my god that tiredness I’ll never forget! Good luck, I hope she settles soon.

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