Where to start. Just need to vent really!
We are abroad visiting DH’s mother which went well until his DB arrived as well, and the atmosphere changed drastically. BIL apparently has a habit of wallowing in self pity, which happened again and somehow this set off DH and they started fighting (mainly words but there were a few punches too). The atmosphere is horrible and they keep going. BIL is shouting, DH sneering and egging him on though I didn’t understand everything they were saying. I feel sorry for my MIL too because they are ignoring her and behaving like absolute dicks. I have told DH that I will look for a hotel if this does not end though I am not feeling very comfortable leaving on my own.
DH is usually super calm and it takes a lot to get him angry, and I have never seen such a behaviour change before. To be fair it’s his brother who seems to reignite the argument but DH isn’t helping it by provoking him more and more. I’m not staying here if this continues on. Not sure what I am expecting to hear but I just needed to vent because they are impossible to talk to.