Hand hold - early scan tomorrow

[RocketKit]

I have one living DC, four miscarriages since. I'm 32. Currently pregnant 7+5, tests have been progressing well, strong pregnancy symptoms and booked in at recurrent miscarriage clinic tomorrow morning for my first scan to check everything is OK. Tests at recurrent miscarriage clinic before I got pregnant revealed nothing amiss, consultant said probably just bad luck, take progesterone anyway, it might help.

Terrified for the scan. Totally convinced it'll be bad news. I can't go through this again. People IRL don't understand at all, just think it doesn't even count as a baby when so early. Don't want to go in tomorrow and be told "oh it's very small but maybe it's just early and you're wrong about your dates" and then go through two weeks of being kept hanging around when I'm 100% sure of dates.

Appreciate a hand hold from anyone who has been through similar ❤️

Just wanted to send some love and luck for your scan. I don't know whether this will help you at all, but it's always helped to reassure me through my pregnancies in reminding me the likelihood of it going right is still higher than the likelihood of it not going right.

datayze.com/miscarriage-reassurer

Thank you x

I see others excited for their first scans and don't understand how they can feel excited...for me it's just expected loss

Thoughts and prayers for you tomorrow ❤I’ve been in your shoes and scans were absolutely terrifying.

Good luck for tomorrow, though "luck" seems not to cover it really.

I've been where you are , to a certain extent, and just envied the blissful ignorance of those who had never suffered losses. I had three losses but 4 dc in the end.

I truly hope you see a healthy baby tomorrow and that you have a totally " boring" pregnancy iykwim

@RocketKit hope everything went well? 🙏🏻