I was the result of a fling between my parents. My Mum was left with me and I didn't meet my Dad for the first time until I was 11. In total I have met my Dad about 20 times. At the beginning of this year we got back in contact and he explained he's an alcoholic and had been sober for nearly 3 years. He met my eldest daughter once when she was 2 (now 12) and it was an extremely strange weekend. He wanted to get in bed with my daughter and I, he was OVERLY affectionate, never out of my personal space by hugging me, kissing my head none stop. I thought it was because he hadn't seen me in years but I felt extremely uncomfortable.
Anyway, he came over in August and met both girls and my 7 year old thought he was fantastic. He's got a very good business and makes a lot of money so spent the weekend buying everything they wanted which I wasn't comfortable with but he said "please let me, I'm making up for lost time". He then started his overly affectionate behaviour with the girls just like he did 10 years ago. The kissing, hugging, rubbing my 12 years old thigh and mine. Rubbing our hands, trying to hold our hands. My 12 year old nearly burst into tears in a restaurant because she felt so uncomfortable. My daughters 7 year old friend came for dinner and my dad was there and he started it with her. Kissing her on the lips, kissing my daughter. So her mum politely asked him not to do that. But, he still was extremely inappropriate.
I wondered at first was all of this because he hasn't got any experience with children or because he's missed out all these years. Now I'm starting to think is he peadophile or extremely narcissistic that he thinks he's entitled to behave like that and why?