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Who's betting when the ungrateful posts will start?

57 replies

ItAintGonnaGoDownEasyIfItAintCheezy · 25/12/2023 07:21

Nearly 7.30 and I haven't seen one yet!

OP posts:
JanglingJack · 25/12/2023 08:24

AreYouReallyOkay · 25/12/2023 08:20

I saw someone post an Alexa last night on Facebook for sale as an 'unwanted Christmas gift'.

It was still Christmas Eve at that point! At least give it one day 😆

🤣

I'm assuming this sort of thing as ungrateful.

festivepains · 25/12/2023 08:30

NotARealWookiie · 25/12/2023 08:05

Any minute now. Someone will whine they’ve been given a Bayliss and Harding gift set

One year I got HALF of a bayliss and harding gift set - the hand cream. Open and part used. I'm afraid I winged a little bit.

usedtobeasizeten · 25/12/2023 08:30

Mmm….about 12ish?

TheChosenTwo · 25/12/2023 08:36

@Perhapsanorhertimewouldbebetter well now you mention it… 😂😂
Nah, I’m enjoying the peace!

Janieforever · 25/12/2023 08:38

Think there was one already, someone got a restaurant voucher.

Pollyparkin · 25/12/2023 08:41

Damnloginpopup · 25/12/2023 07:56

I couldn't sleep last night ( too late on the espresso martinis). What a negative whinge-fest MN was!!! Cheered me right up 😁

Same. Was up late wrapping and setting the scene and Mumsnet kept me company !

jollygreenpea · 25/12/2023 08:43

I'm guessing that the op meant this to be lighthearted rather than how some have taken it.

Being given half a used hand cream, rage but laugh.

Flogging yourself to make sure everyone has a lovely thoughtful day, you get naff all, rage and seriously think about life/relationship.

Working hard to get through Christmas without being abused, in any of it's terrible forms, rage and run.

Damnloginpopup · 25/12/2023 08:47

Pollyparkin · 25/12/2023 08:41

Same. Was up late wrapping and setting the scene and Mumsnet kept me company !

Aibu was, of course, way ahead of chat. I was just "lighten the fuck up, fuckers!"

I think people have these weird expectations of Christmas being wonderful and amazing and warm and fuzzy. I merely expect an anti-climactic, little-bit-shit day of getting far less done than I create for later. Buy crap, give crap, receive crap and await disappointment and all will be fine. I'm gonna have a lovely day with family. Hope you all do too!

Just glad I'm not on waking night shifts still.

usedtobeasizeten · 25/12/2023 08:56

Janieforever · 25/12/2023 08:38

Think there was one already, someone got a restaurant voucher.

I got one! I’m delighted! Fabulous restaurant in town that gets nothing but great reviews and we haven’t been yet! So looking forward to using it….🍷🥂

itsgettingweird · 25/12/2023 08:57

One year I got HALF of a bayliss and harding gift set - the hand cream. Open and part used. I'm afraid I winged a little bit.

I'm impressed it was only a little bit.

I don't expect diamonds or expensive gifts. But I expect my family to know what I like - and I do like candles and books and fluffy socks etc despite what many on MN can't abide!

ZenNudist · 25/12/2023 08:58

Well seeing as I've just read someone disappointed that her dh didn't make a massive song and dance over a replacement engagement ring Christmas present I reckon ingratitude out in force already.

Merry Christmas!!!

TroysMammy · 25/12/2023 08:59

Also waiting for the mouldy turkeys and the "he had one job , to get the bread sauce and he forgot. Christmas lunch is ruined" And the "is 9pm acceptable to be sitting down for Christmas dinner?"

PurpleChrayne · 25/12/2023 09:01

It's all so pathetic. People need to chill out.

Tigertailss · 25/12/2023 09:01

Damn, I have actually forgotten the bread sauce 😕

ItAintGonnaGoDownEasyIfItAintCheezy · 25/12/2023 09:07

Damnloginpopup · 25/12/2023 07:56

I couldn't sleep last night ( too late on the espresso martinis). What a negative whinge-fest MN was!!! Cheered me right up 😁

😂

OP posts:
ItAintGonnaGoDownEasyIfItAintCheezy · 25/12/2023 09:24

Perhapsanorhertimewouldbebetter · 25/12/2023 08:14

Ungrateful in what context?

As in I got a round the world trip, a diamond ring, a complete new wardrobe from dior, the contacts of selfridges, harrows and liberty but it's still not enough, wahhhh.

That type of ungrateful.

OP posts:
MaryHinges · 25/12/2023 09:37

LifeofBrienne · 25/12/2023 07:52

Define ‘ungrateful’, OP. Sounds like you think women should just put up and shut up however shit their (lack of) present or however inconsiderately they are treated.

Projection? Much?

Wetweatherandmud · 25/12/2023 09:46

I suppose it depends on the quality of your relationship and the context how ungrateful you are. If you get a used hand cream from MIL, you can bet that she's not keen on you. Conversely if your DH goes overboard with presents, has he bought the same for an OW you don't know about? I posted that I bought my own present, but I've just had my birthday and DH got me a wonderful and romantic present, so he was all out of ideas.
I do love these threads, but feel for those whose presents feel more like a kick in the teeth.

CheesyChipsOnWembleyWay · 25/12/2023 09:54

Tigertailss · 25/12/2023 09:01

Damn, I have actually forgotten the bread sauce 😕

Think there was a shortage this year I had to go round 4 different shops to find any

TotallyKerplunked · 25/12/2023 10:48

Can I start then as I've already been called ungrateful for my gift, let's see what you all think.

ExDH (ex for 4 years!) got a vasectomy, for me apparently and was pissed when I didn't leap back into bed in gratitude (I was also called a spiteful bitch alongside ungrateful).

Some context - I asked 8 years ago, he said no, fine, so I got sterilised after DC3 so most pointless present ever.

honeyytoast · 25/12/2023 10:54

Perhapsanorhertimewouldbebetter · 25/12/2023 08:16

Those are always in charity shops....I don't mind some of them tbh but I'm not hoping for any either....🤣

One thing about me is I will always be happy to receive a bayliss and harding esque gift. Anything with nice bottles that looks like it could have been nicked from a hotel 😂

StockpotSoup · 25/12/2023 11:00

TotallyKerplunked · 25/12/2023 10:48

Can I start then as I've already been called ungrateful for my gift, let's see what you all think.

ExDH (ex for 4 years!) got a vasectomy, for me apparently and was pissed when I didn't leap back into bed in gratitude (I was also called a spiteful bitch alongside ungrateful).

Some context - I asked 8 years ago, he said no, fine, so I got sterilised after DC3 so most pointless present ever.

Bloody hell - I think I’d prefer the used Bayliss and Harling 😳

AutumnCrow · 25/12/2023 11:13

I don't think 'sterilisation' and 'Christmas' are really pairing up in my head ...

Although there was one woman on here years ago whose husband bought her a private hysterectomy for Christmas because she'd mentioned period pain. She was more bewildered than anything.

TrashedSofa · 25/12/2023 12:29

TotallyKerplunked · 25/12/2023 10:48

Can I start then as I've already been called ungrateful for my gift, let's see what you all think.

ExDH (ex for 4 years!) got a vasectomy, for me apparently and was pissed when I didn't leap back into bed in gratitude (I was also called a spiteful bitch alongside ungrateful).

Some context - I asked 8 years ago, he said no, fine, so I got sterilised after DC3 so most pointless present ever.

Ok, didn't have that one on my MN Christmas bingo card.

ohdamnitjanet · 25/12/2023 12:35

StockpotSoup · 25/12/2023 11:00

Bloody hell - I think I’d prefer the used Bayliss and Harling 😳

Me too - although I’d shove it up his arse