My husband is a carer for our disabled son who has ASD and he's been getting carers allowance for the past few years. We also get some universal credit as my husband being unable to work due to caring for our son means we have a low income.
Our son is considering university but I very much doubt he'll be there all of the time. Most likely he'll be at home 50% of the time, just staying a few nights in accommodation and I'll bring him home for the rest of the time.
Because my son could have an anxiety attack and need to be at home (with supervision) at any time he needs his Dad to be available at all times, which means my husband cannot work.
I know carers allowance is awarded if he provides care for 35 hours a week or more, but would "being on standby" count towards some of this? I'm thinking of a scenario where he still does a lot of care (20 hours?) but falls short of the 35 needed.