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Anyone up? In so much pain and don’t know what to do

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Painpanic · 23/12/2023 02:25

Long time poster; name change as details are outing.

Woke up this morning feeling like I’d pulled a hip flexor. Context: day before, my father’s funeral and got to bed very late on a makeshift bed. Ouchy, but thought would be fine for a bath and stretches.

Have a long family lunch with elderly relatives. My left hip is sore, but OK. Sit in the car for two hours to drive home and it gets worse, so have hot Epsom salt bath and do relevant stretches and get massage gun out.

Fast forward to now and any position is absolutely agony. Just tried to go to the loo and impossible to sit down or put weight on my left leg. Can’t roll over in bed or sit up. I’ve managed an hour or two of sleep and no idea what to do. Left hip is absolutely excruciating. Worse than childbirth.

As husband rescues me screaming in pain from the bathroom and says A&E in the morning but that seems dramatic and I’m worried about wasting people’s time.

I’m scared though as I had a microdiscetomy on my L4 L5 and I’m worried this pain is somehow related.

If you’ve got this far, please tell me what the best route for medical help is, or there is some hope this will magically stop.

Or send a handhold as I’ve just said goodbye to my Dad and all that’s got me through the last four weeks is the thought of a lovely quiet Christmas at home with my 8yo DS and DH (after last year I was recovering from spinal surgery / wrist fracture and the Christmas before that my boy had appendicitis).

OP posts:
Hearmenow23 · 23/12/2023 04:23

Oh op! You sound just like me when I tore a disc. The pain is only comparable to childbirth. Strong codeine and ice packs and A&E. How long ago was your surgery?

dijonketchup · 23/12/2023 05:09

I’m so sorry about your dad and your pain OP. It seems like a rotten coincidence, but the only time in my life I’ve had back problems was after a bereavement when I ended up lying down for two weeks, couldn’t drive, or do anything!

I’m not saying that to dismiss your pain at ALL as you have a medical history, but I think grief and shock make us hold our bodies in an unnatural tension and can make physical issues worse.

Hope you get seen quickly and the pain recedes so you can have a peaceful Christmas Day.

elm26 · 23/12/2023 05:40

So sorry for your loss OP x

I agree with PP's, 111 and get seen/stronger painkillers so that you can have the quiet Christmas Day that you planned. Lots of love to you x

Painpanic · 23/12/2023 06:54

Thank you everyone for getting me through the night. I’m awaiting a 111 call back… we’ve got a good out of hours service that should open at 8. Somehow going to get there (they refer you into A&E if needed). Managed to drift after taking all the drugs (and only getting 4hrs of sleep the night before). Household now awake.

OP posts:
Painpanic · 23/12/2023 07:01

Thanks too for your sympathies. I was having a very stressful time before losing my Dad, having resigned to take on a new job. Having foolishly thought my spinal issues were sorted and could move on… now I can’t get my pants on 😢

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WavyLines11 · 23/12/2023 07:29

Hope you get sorted this am op.

Sending solidarity as my dh is having a horrendous sciatica flare up currently Flowers

Painpanic · 23/12/2023 07:44

WavyLines11 · 23/12/2023 07:29

Hope you get sorted this am op.

Sending solidarity as my dh is having a horrendous sciatica flare up currently Flowers

Thank you. And commiserations to your husband - rotten timing! Hope he’s ok.

OP posts:
Amdone123 · 23/12/2023 10:30

@Painpanic how are you getting on ?

Painpanic · 23/12/2023 11:08

Amdone123 · 23/12/2023 10:30

@Painpanic how are you getting on ?

Thank you for checking in. Better than 2am this morning. Spoke to 111, got an appointment at A&E at 4pm and have taken a high dose of Tramadol which is at least allowing me to lie down in more comfortable. The cat has found me and is thrilled and I’m finding the purring comforting. Husband now approaching the Christmas chores with full gusto. At least we are not hosting?!

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DyslexicPoster · 23/12/2023 11:39

That's great OP. At least no waiting around for hours at A&E. Take a pillow with you.

DyslexicPoster · 23/12/2023 23:57

How did you get on OP? I hope your feeling much better now

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