not sure what to do about this, I’m at a point where I feel like letting the friendship go.
met friend at NCT 6 years ago, bonded over both having girls and were excited for them to grow up together. As it stands, our girls were best friends until 2 years ago, my dd is autistic and struggles a lot socially. Her dd is very social and without judging a 6 year old too harshly but she can be quite horrible to my dd bordering on bullying and has also been violent with her in the past. Friend never disciplined her daughter and always brushed it off as her being a wild child and high energy, and my dd was just ‘too sensitive’. In the end I’ve seen my friend separately now and don’t bring my older daughter along. Now we both have second dc, and with a few months between them and they are both toddlers. Her toddler attacks mine at any given chance, most recently shoved them over causing mine to smack his head on the floor. This happens multiple times during our meetings, literally if I take my eyes of them for a second my dc is screaming. Again, she doesn’t discipline him at all. I’m beginning to resent her and admittedly both of her children and feel like cutting the friendship off. What would you do? I feel like she thinks it’s all down to my dc being sensitive!