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Is there any way they would move me?

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nswtda · 14/12/2023 21:23

I live in a housing association flat, Been here 8 years and always loved it here, until 9 months ago when my neighbour moved away and they moved a single man in. For context I'm disabled and live alone.

The day he moved in he moved his son in too, him and son would constantly argue, shout and scream at each other, slam doors off their hinges, smash the back windows etc son was about 11 or 12 ish, would hear the kid in the back garden talking about his dad (my neighbour) living in a drug den.

Son moved out (assuming back to mother) and in moved another bloke, neighbour and bloke got drunk and played loud music night after night until 5am, usually in the back garden.

Bloke moved out and now there seems to be a woman there with him. they have done nothing but scream at each other all last night and all day today, its still going on, she is currently shouting at neighbour saying he promised her a bag of coke today and he's a cunt because she's not had it yet, loads of slamming, banging etc

Also smaller things such as me being unable to use or have access to the shared back garden because he has padlocked it shut, Him leaving beer cans all over the front of my flat outside my front door, on my driveway etc

Got home a few weeks ago and I couldn't get into my flat because he was passed out drunk sat up against my front door.

Noticed the carpet behind my front door was always wet and it started smelling, caught him peeing up against my front door, drunk out of his mind.

Aggressively banging on my door shouting I had his 'fucking parcel' he knew I had it and he fucking wanted it back now or he was kicking my door in. I didn't have his parcel..

He told me when he moved in his last neighbours reported him and it better not happen again.

I haven't slept a full night since he moved in, my illness has got worse as stress makes it worse, I'm depressed and now hate where I live.

If I report him I'm scared of what will happen.

Could I be moved without having to report him? I have no family at all, I'm alone.

OP posts:
Jeelypieces20storeys · 14/12/2023 21:28

You need to get this documented. Could you call the anti-social behaviour team? Go to your GP & explain the stress you are under and that it's making your condition worse. They should be able to write a letter of support, plus the fact it's making your condition worse should get you medical points on a transfer application. Call your housing association and ask to speak to someone in confidence because this sounds awful.

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