I found out some time ago that I have half siblings which was a shock to say the least. Half siblings are from an affair my Dad and their Mum was having, I found this so very hurtful, my poor Mum.
My Dad did not have a relationship with half siblings (poor, I know) and has since passed away. Half siblings had reached out as adults and there was a meet up but I think this was it. I chose not to get involved as felt so hurt for my Mum and didn’t want to complicate things.
Since my Dad’s passing, I have thought about them and the whole thing more so but don’t know quite why, it’s like I am still in disbelief that this situation even exists and I feel quite angry. Has anyone else been through this or similar? Is it just the grief process is some way or another?