My son is 4, I've been in a bad relationship for 6 years, the past 4 years has been same old, my partner dose t help, save, give me any money towards my sons gifts and just acts like if he had a place to go... he's be there... he's no where to go and I get guilted for it. This year again no gifts for us or his other 2 kids with different mum, no money, argues alot then blames me... so I said u need to leave ASAP, 2 weeks before Xmas... he knows I can't work new year if he leaves and ill be stuck and possible sacked!! What do I do, where do I turn, should he go or should I say January is a set date to leave?? Help... need advice