Name changed. This has been bugging me since Saturday night. I work in a bar a couple of nights a week. Saturday night was the busiest I've seen it. People were ordering 16 drinks at a time at one point. There was me and 2 others working (A&B).
The following things aren't particularly relevant in my moral dilemma but it's worth a mention:
I work another part time job, have a mortgage, a 1yo and 4yo.
I'm on £10.50 an hour at the bar. I have only been there a month.
Colleague A is on £11 an hour, works full time elsewhere and lives with parents.
Colleague B is on £11 an hour, works full time elsewhere and has a mortgage of their own with a lodger living with them.
There is a rule at the bar that if someone offers you a drink you can either have it while you're working or you can charge an extra £5 and take the money as a tip. We write these tips down on a note pad by the till and take our totals at the end of the night (these are not shared between all staff, you take your own).
Saturday night it's me, A and B working together. As I say, really busy! A is drinking and popping to the loo every so often. Not paying for drinks. B isn't drinking and neither am I. So I'm already on the back foot with A and picking up some slack.
Anyway, a huge fight broke out in the bar. No security, I handled it and managed to get everyone out. We then had to close early to clear up all the broken glass and crap people had left. This was mainly me as A was pissed and B was still serving and talking to some guys at the bar about the drama. So I'm already pissed off as I'm not paid enough for this shit.
So here's where I'm really wanting opinions on what you'd do...
A made £100 in tips Saturday night. Every time they took a big order they were adding £5/£10 to the bill and taking the money. Customers didn't notice obviously but A was NOT offered these drinks. A was just adding it to the bill and made £100.
I made £29. Because I wasn't taking money that wasn't offered to me.
What would you do?? As I'm left thinking 'I want £100 in tips!' But it's stealing isn't it? What do you think?
A can do what they like, it doesn't bother me but it is bugging me that one is walking away from the same shift with that much more than the other!
Please help sort my moral compass out, thank you 👍🏼