My dc was part of the covid cohort who never did gcses, college was a mess of online learning/closures/utter disaster. Zero social stuff really during the formative years, dad not really on the scene. DC is now working in an OK job.
Major major conflicts going on at home. Biggest one is that whilst currently not driving (saving every penny to buy swanky new car) dc has started a job with zero public transport options and is expecting a lift to/from work every day, Mon-Sat. 2 days a week I'm passing so I don't mind, the others so far I've been doing but charging petrol for (dc earns as much as me with minimal board, zero other expenses as saving for swanky new car). DC refuses to do any sort of domestic chores because 'I'm paying board'.
AIBU to expect that there is some support around the house in lieu of the hour (or more) a day I'm taking to taxi dc about?
AIBU to think sod it, with the attitude that I owe dc and should be proud they're working (despite zero consideration for how the fuck they're going to get there), I'm not going to give lifts outside the days I'm passing?
AIBU to say if you don't like it and aren't prepared to muck in then you can move out?
AIBU to think I've been a flake to let it go on for so long and to ask for help/handhold/backbone to tell DC to shape up or ship out?