I don't know what to write, or how to write it actually but I suppose the title gives you an idea. Basically for the last 6 years my husband has been going through some difficult circumstances. He still has on going issues that happened in work that badly impacted him and he left. He then got another job which then ended up with staff being made redundant- it was a case of first in last out so he was let go. He has now got a new job, in a well paid industry but he hates it and is always, always miserable. He's extremely hard working ( this is probably part of the problem) and has great ideas but the work load is insane and everyone dumps their problems onto him because he is considered v good at his job. Probablem is he is just so unhappy and miserable all the time. It's this that is the problem and I'm becoming really weary of his constant depression and generally being unhappy. It's starting to really get on my nerves. I'm working two jobs over 6 days and no matter what I ask him to do around the house it never seems to get done. I'm fed up of always coming home to the house being untidy or no dinner being made. I fully understand that he is unhappy and I want to support him but I'm tired too and I just want to be supported too.
I'm sorry for moaning but I. Needed a vent x