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What was normal in your workplace in the noughties that would be outrageous now

658 replies

Shhhhivegotasecret · 02/12/2023 19:32

My example - all the men going off to continue business meeting at a Stringfellows leaving all the women behind…. Would be the stuff of tribunals nowadays, back then it was 🤷‍♀️

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uninterestingusernamealert · 02/12/2023 22:13

blueshoes · 02/12/2023 21:38

On a work retreat, I had to share a hotel room with a colleague. We could choose who and it was assumed to be same sex but still ...

Yes I had this too! Not for a retreat but when we had to go to London for meetings/conferences. Was considered completely normal.

Twin rooms, with a colleague! I mean WTF?! This wasn't even that long ago.... 20101-12? I wouldn't even consider it now, it'd be a flat no. I can imagine little worse, I wouldn't share a hotel room with anyone other than my DH, or at a push but would really rather not, my mother. I even have my own hotel room if I go away overnight with friends!

Butsheisnot · 02/12/2023 22:14

Fun, sarcasm and irony.

I loved getting drunk on cider at Friday lunchtime and trying to work Friday afternoon. It was the civil service so we could knock off at 3.30 and go straight back to the pub. Everyone was sleeping with someone. Some of the best times of my life!

QueenOfMOHO · 02/12/2023 22:14

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 02/12/2023 19:49

Doctors mess parties going on till 5am and then tipping up to work at 8🫣
Consultants pinging my bra strap and telling me I had nice tits.

Yep, getting my arse smacked or stroked by the hospital doctors was all quite usual.

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 02/12/2023 22:15

Two staff rooms in some schools, one smoking and one non-smoking. You could smell the smoking one at the other end of the corridor.

In the first place I worked in the early 90s people were allowed to smoke at their desks on the weekend as the smoking room wasn’t open because there was no cleaners on weekends. Hated working a Saturday if certain colleagues were in.

Ocani · 02/12/2023 22:16

notahappybunny7 · 02/12/2023 22:09

20 years ago?? Really?? Also what is wrong with the pub at lunchtime?!

Tbf there wasn't always a great deal of work after lunch pub, especially on a Friday. Fond memories of an absolute lunchtime blowout where my old boss got so shitfaced he couldn't remember his password on returning to the office culminating in him repeatedly typing in "bastardyou" and "fuckarse" with a running commentary until eventually the IT guy intervened.

JudgeJ · 02/12/2023 22:16

PuttingDownRoots · 02/12/2023 19:42

Opening bottles of champagne with swords

What's wrong with that, I used to love to see it!

LovePoppy · 02/12/2023 22:18

User136921 · 02/12/2023 19:40

Smoking at the desk
pub at lunchtime
those page 3 calendars on the wall in the workshop

You could still smoke at a desk in the 2000s??

nightclubs went smoke free here in 03. Restaurants earlier than that, and offices before that!

JudgeJ · 02/12/2023 22:18

PuttingDownRoots · 02/12/2023 19:47

It was until the time a huge chunk of glass was still attached to the Cork as it flew across the room before hitting someone in the face.

It was done outside after that.

Sounds like it must have been amateur night if that happened, a good regiment never allowed that to happen!

organicbox · 02/12/2023 22:18

I worked in a school where teachers kept vodka in the freezer in the staff room and started drinking at 3.15pm. Several drove home hammered often. Once a week a guy came round to sell duty free cigarettes. Everyone bought them. The head took the batteries out the staff room smoke alarm so everyone could smoke.

Papyrophile · 02/12/2023 22:19

Most of you seem to remember life being more enjoyable then than it is now. Have we gone too puritanical?

GodDammitCecil · 02/12/2023 22:20

LovePoppy · 02/12/2023 22:18

You could still smoke at a desk in the 2000s??

nightclubs went smoke free here in 03. Restaurants earlier than that, and offices before that!

You weren’t allowed to, but people did.

At my work, the smokers waited until 5pm to light up.

But as I say, the print room guys smoked regardless of the time of day. This was 2000-2005.

ShiteRider · 02/12/2023 22:20

LovePoppy · 02/12/2023 22:18

You could still smoke at a desk in the 2000s??

nightclubs went smoke free here in 03. Restaurants earlier than that, and offices before that!

I agree, smoking at desks in the noughties seems very late.

Littlename · 02/12/2023 22:20

Worked in a call centre in my late teens. Several of us would go out drinking, then when the clubs kicked out, we’d let ourselves into the building to sleep on the staff room sofas until work started at 9.

When we had a product launch, management got us a big light-up punch fountain that they filled with red bull to keep us going. If we met our sales targets in launch week, they’d provide us with cheesecake. Everyone smoked. Everyone was shagging each other. Most of the management was on coke. Our sales tactics were questionable, to say the least.

GodDammitCecil · 02/12/2023 22:21

Papyrophile · 02/12/2023 22:19

Most of you seem to remember life being more enjoyable then than it is now. Have we gone too puritanical?

Possibly.

But it’s also just us middle-agers, nostalgic about a time in our lives when we were young and carefree.

supercatlady · 02/12/2023 22:22

Surely smoking at desks was long before the noughties?

GodDammitCecil · 02/12/2023 22:22

I’m sure young people starting out in their working lives also have good times.

Probably just not as good as our times!

Ocani · 02/12/2023 22:23

Yeah as I remember it smoking at desks stopped very early 90s, it was only in smoking rooms from then. By 2000 there weren't even smoking rooms; we had to go outside. Most airlines banned smoking by 2000, a fair few airports too including all the major US ones. I used to book Air France because they were one of the last to fall, but even they'd succumbed by early 2000s.

starfishmummy · 02/12/2023 22:23

It being none of work's business where you went at lunchtime for your whole hour.

This. When I went off for my maternity leave/career break people whonstayed in the office at lunchtime were the unusual ones. When I went back everyone stayed in.

And in fact having the opportunity for a several year career break no longer existed.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 02/12/2023 22:23

I worked for an airline where if you put weight on, you were put on the Fat List.
Only just before I joined, they scrapped the rule that said you had to leave if you got married. Your husband wouldn’t like you being away, would he? Who was going to cook his dinner and iron his shirts?
Not to mention the sort of first officer who put a note under my hotel room door - ‘The door is open, come and kiss me goodnight.’
I did quite fancy him actually, but the randy bugger was notorious - and married, unsurprisingly.

JudgeJ · 02/12/2023 22:24

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 02/12/2023 19:49

Doctors mess parties going on till 5am and then tipping up to work at 8🫣
Consultants pinging my bra strap and telling me I had nice tits.

Reminds me of a great Mess party, it broke up about 8 am and as I was teaching at 9 I stuck my head round the Head's door as I walked by to say I'd be maybe a few minutes late. She told me to go and get a shower and breakfast then come in after Break. The Nuns were great!

Ocani · 02/12/2023 22:27

starfishmummy · 02/12/2023 22:23

It being none of work's business where you went at lunchtime for your whole hour.

This. When I went off for my maternity leave/career break people whonstayed in the office at lunchtime were the unusual ones. When I went back everyone stayed in.

And in fact having the opportunity for a several year career break no longer existed.

Yy. And being able to take an hour for lunch!

One downside of minimum wage is that a lot of places went to either 35 or 37.5 hour week with any lunchtime unpaid. So now if you go over half an hour you're conscious that you're using time up that you could be getting paid for, so no one does.

FrangipaniBlue · 02/12/2023 22:29

Early noughties I worked at a local authority. Most council offices had bars in known as "the mayors parlour", used for evening "political events".

On the last working day before Christmas one mayor used to load up booze from the bar onto the tea lady's trolley and make his way round the office (dressed as Santa!) giving out drinks 😂

JudgeJ · 02/12/2023 22:31

Giraffescarf · 02/12/2023 20:14

I am going to get told off for this but- despite the sexism etc life was just more fun back then. Everyone is offended and sensible these days.

So true, most of the women I worked with could give it out as much as the men!

Crushed23 · 02/12/2023 22:34

theduchessofspork · 02/12/2023 21:46

On big nights out all the guys throwing their credit cards onto the table - the waitress would pick one randomly and he got the bill. 🤯

Lapdancing clubs being a perfectly ok way to entertain clients.

Booking hookers for important clients being tolerated, not talked about but tolerated.

My bosses boss who would leave expensive bottles of wine on the desks of those providing him with coke.

He also do a lot of throwing things on the floor when angry.

Lots of shagging, sometimes for career advancement (for men and women, there were quite a lot of senior women) and sometimes just for fun, and sometimes turning nasty. At least one person I knew claimed Mr cokehead boss raped her.

The solution to important make clients being sex pests was to warn everyone and out the young female/male staff in a different hotel when away with work.

Bullying was absolutely RIFE. And general shouting and swearing. I once walked into an office when some guy had another guy’s head in the photocopier.

The solution to bullying from one of the notorious big bullies was to expect you to put up with it, but eventually move you once you had proved your metal to move you and someone else got a turn.

Lots of drinking and drugs and bedhopping. That was fun but It was pretty savage really.

Late 90s/early OOs

Yikes. What industry was this?!

Lucytheloose · 02/12/2023 22:35

Dictating onto a tape and getting your letter back from the typing pool three days later.