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High joint income and in social housing with no plans to buy. Celebrate or selfish?

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SocialHousedNHappy · 27/11/2023 21:57

I’ve been wondering about for some time and completely understand the dire and desperate situation that many people and families find themselves in. But… I hate the way that social housing is seen as only for the most desperate, when it was introduced as a housing option for all.

My household brings in a healthy income and we pay less than 10% to our monthly rent. This means we get enjoy a modest lifestyle and put some money aside for adult DC for when they’re older - they can then choose to buy whatever they fancy, car, house deposit, uni, whatever as will be their choice.

I hate that people seem to think that I should give up my secure tenancy and move into private rent. Looking on rightmove, a comparable house would be around 3x what I’m currently paying in rent, and to be honest, I wouldn’t move to private rented ever again. But why do people react as thought I’m doing something wrong, in the same way as they think of benefit cheats? I think the govt should be put under pressure to build more social housing - proper social housing, rather than the current situation where people are pit against each other and blaming each other for what is clearly a government failing.

I don’t want to sound like I’m gloating, because I’m not, but I don’t see why I should feel bad and not celebrate the life and comfort that my social housing has allowed me to enjoy.

I’m genuinely interested to hear if anyone agrees and feels the same.

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Beezknees · 15/12/2023 22:12

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Absolute nonsense. I'm a social housing tenant myself. Live in a very quiet block of social housing flats, with some families, a retired old gentleman, on the ground floor a lovely chap with disabilities. You're stereotyping and making huge generalisations. No crime, we very much look out for each other.

copperpipess · 15/12/2023 22:24

@Beezknees please refer to 'of course there are exceptions as with everything'.

JenniferBooth · 15/12/2023 22:30

@copperpipess But but but but thats what y"all wanted For social housing to go to only the most desperate.

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copperpipess · 15/12/2023 22:31

@stomachameleon happy for you that you haven't had that experience.

copperpipess · 15/12/2023 22:31

@JenniferBooth pardon?

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